I really really want to get my gerbil a friend and hes a boy gerbil and I think hes almost a year old And Ive really been wanting a gerbil for my birthday for him. If anyone can tell me How easy it is So I can convince my parents that would be like the best thing in the world for me. P.S. My gerbil is my profile picture. His name is Dusty.How do I make my parents let me get my gerbil a friend?
Hey!! dont worry i had this same prob!! im a really good convincer and that is how i got my dwarf hammy: kiwi!! well what i did is sayin my hammy needs a friend cuz he lonley and say o come on you dont want animals to be lonely and miserable!! do chores and help out as much as you can.. in some way show them your responsible and tell them you will do all the gerbil work and take care of it all.. do anthin ya can.. hope this convinces your parents and let me know bout what they say!! --lulu--How do I make my parents let me get my gerbil a friend?
present them a list of arguments explaining the reasons a second gerbil would be a beneficial edition. Also, contemplate any arguments that your parents may have and find positive answers to support these arguments. You should also do extra chores and other tasks to help your parents out and prove to them that you are responsible! good luck!
a 1 yr old gerbil won't live very long, there life span is 1-3 yrs. but if u really want him, show how responsible u are, do chores aroung the house, if u have other pets, show how u can take care of them, earn money to pay for him and for every to go with him, cage water bottle food ect. a gerbil IN ALL may cost more than 200 dollars, so u would need to earn A LOT of money. u need........
-cage 20-40 dollars
-water bottle-2-5 dollars
-wheel 4-12 dollars
- food about 2 dollars a puond in all about 50 dollars
- bedding 10-20 dollars a bag (a bag lasts about 4 weeks depending on how big the bag is.)
- extras toyz ect. 10-50 dollars depending if u spiol him or not...lol
Explain to them that Gerbils are social animals and need to live in groups. Tell them that having an extra Gerbil will not cause the cage to get dirtier quicker as Gerbils are extremely clean animals anyway.
Show them some internet websites explaining that Gerbils should be kept in same sex pairs.
tell your parents that he is misrable without a friend do some chores around the house pay for the gerbil yourself
hope it helps
Thursday, May 13, 2010
What do you tell your parents when a free xbox 360 arrives in the mail addressed to you?
I have started to complete offers on one of those websites that give you a free xbox 360. I stopped though because I had to rethink it. What if i complete all the offers and i receive the xbox 360? My parents would say, ';where did you get that from?'; I was just wondering what I should say to that question because they wouldnt believe me if I said, ';I got it for free';.What do you tell your parents when a free xbox 360 arrives in the mail addressed to you?
Well, if ithe offers work I would just tell them the truth. That way, you get to keep the Xbox 360 and you aren't in trouble.
Good Luck!What do you tell your parents when a free xbox 360 arrives in the mail addressed to you?
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Most of the time that is true.i found a site where you do offers that can cost you, or you can be free.You can believe me if u want or not but the link is http://www.rewards1.com/index.... i got my xbox360 from there.what you do is take offers get points from it and buy d prize
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First like the other posters said nothings free, make sure you read the conditions on the site usually you have to buy a subscription to several things before you get your Xbox or get a ton of people to sign up. Other then that couldn't you just say I got it on one of those website, if not go with the prize thing drawing at school or game store or something.
To everyone saying getting a free XBOX isn't possible, shut it!
I got mine for free from Mt. Dew, so there. They had a contest and I was one of the 13,000 or so winners.
They have a point about these online ';offers'; being a magnet for spammers. I wouldn't do any of that stuff myself, because they are usually fake.
If you have plenty of time then don't listen to everyone else it is very easily possible you just have to know what you are doing and only do one other at a time so you don't forget to cancel a contract. just say to them you got it free and show them how or say you got it of telebid.com cos they are well cheap on there.
actually not true i got my free xbox 360 elite with 2 controllers and a game of my choice free without a credit card pick a referal account you refer people to the program then when they sign up you get a referal point 10 points get u a 3690!!!
go here lol... http://www.360Elite4free.com/index.php?ref=5176534
make an account!
It does not work! All it does is sell your e-mail, then you get a TON of spam. There is always a ';disclaimer'; in lawyer jibberish on their sites that says you won't ever recieve an xbox (or anything free).
IF you receive it, make sure you save the offer emails so you can show them. But that's a BIG if.
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say you used this.
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say you dont know or you friend gave it to you and just or dont let them see it but use this web if you want more
Tell them your friend had one, then his uncle or cousin gave him another one as a gift, so he gave you his old one. Thats what I told my parents when i got my 360. But it was actually true.
You'll never get a free Xbox or a free anything from those offers. You'll just get spam mail. Those offers are just scams. Don't do it.
most of those things are spam. if you want a cheap one go on eBay for the premium one they are regularly 350$ but you get one for 100$ - 215$
Those offers are scams. Ultimately, these scammers wont give you #%^%26amp;. If you really want an Xbox 360, buy a cheap one from eBay. I brought my core 360 for $180.
Just say you won in in a prize contest
Say ';Look how much money I have saved you!';.
Not that you will get a FREE Xbox though.estee lauder
Well, if ithe offers work I would just tell them the truth. That way, you get to keep the Xbox 360 and you aren't in trouble.
Good Luck!What do you tell your parents when a free xbox 360 arrives in the mail addressed to you?
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Most of the time that is true.i found a site where you do offers that can cost you, or you can be free.You can believe me if u want or not but the link is http://www.rewards1.com/index.... i got my xbox360 from there.what you do is take offers get points from it and buy d prize
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First like the other posters said nothings free, make sure you read the conditions on the site usually you have to buy a subscription to several things before you get your Xbox or get a ton of people to sign up. Other then that couldn't you just say I got it on one of those website, if not go with the prize thing drawing at school or game store or something.
To everyone saying getting a free XBOX isn't possible, shut it!
I got mine for free from Mt. Dew, so there. They had a contest and I was one of the 13,000 or so winners.
They have a point about these online ';offers'; being a magnet for spammers. I wouldn't do any of that stuff myself, because they are usually fake.
If you have plenty of time then don't listen to everyone else it is very easily possible you just have to know what you are doing and only do one other at a time so you don't forget to cancel a contract. just say to them you got it free and show them how or say you got it of telebid.com cos they are well cheap on there.
actually not true i got my free xbox 360 elite with 2 controllers and a game of my choice free without a credit card pick a referal account you refer people to the program then when they sign up you get a referal point 10 points get u a 3690!!!
go here lol... http://www.360Elite4free.com/index.php?ref=5176534
make an account!
It does not work! All it does is sell your e-mail, then you get a TON of spam. There is always a ';disclaimer'; in lawyer jibberish on their sites that says you won't ever recieve an xbox (or anything free).
IF you receive it, make sure you save the offer emails so you can show them. But that's a BIG if.
%26lt;a href=';http://www.rewards1.com/index.php?鈥?target=';_blank';%26gt;%26lt;img src=';http://www.rewards1.com/common/imag鈥?border=';1'; width=';468'; height=';60';%26gt;%26lt;/a%26gt;
http://www.gaminglagoon.com/?ref=253789
say you used this.
http://www.prizerebel.com/index.php?r=330404
say you dont know or you friend gave it to you and just or dont let them see it but use this web if you want more
Tell them your friend had one, then his uncle or cousin gave him another one as a gift, so he gave you his old one. Thats what I told my parents when i got my 360. But it was actually true.
You'll never get a free Xbox or a free anything from those offers. You'll just get spam mail. Those offers are just scams. Don't do it.
most of those things are spam. if you want a cheap one go on eBay for the premium one they are regularly 350$ but you get one for 100$ - 215$
Those offers are scams. Ultimately, these scammers wont give you #%^%26amp;. If you really want an Xbox 360, buy a cheap one from eBay. I brought my core 360 for $180.
Just say you won in in a prize contest
Say ';Look how much money I have saved you!';.
Not that you will get a FREE Xbox though.
How do I convince my parents to get me a laptop?
Christmas just passed and I got an iPod touch 16GB from my parents. I'm not sure if asking would apear ungrateful...
I'm thinking of getting the Compaq CQ60Z, a budget laptop with good features. However, we have one cpu running XP at home and my mom has a laptop from her job that is outdated and uncompatible with many of the uses I desire.
I also have enough money to buy it myself, but my parents always see it as their money when I ask to buy something.How do I convince my parents to get me a laptop?
First do all your homework, find out every possible answer to a question they would ask you. Show them you know what you're talking about. Print out a couple of documents suggesting it's a good deal and has good specifications.
Tell them about your failing desktop, if it helps, let them know it will help your school by having a mobile computer at hand.
Elaborate to your parents on how you will take care of it. Use prior experiences to show your parents you are responsible.
To add the cherry to the top, tell your parents that it might even benefit them, show them how they might be able to do some things on it when you are not using it.
Hope it helps.How do I convince my parents to get me a laptop?
';don't waste your money on a laptop, especially a POS Compaq or HP or Dell
ROFL, Since When do you have the right to use someone else's work computer to do what you want??
You have the Right to Remain Silent..';
Shut the **** up you lil jackass. You got da right to remain silent so sit yo *** down
Get all the information on the laptop you want (special features, price and what not.) Come to them in a very mature tactic. Tell them that you've been looking into different laptops because it's something I NEED for school work and it will also be helpful for them as well since their laptop doesn't have updated features. Tell them that it's in YOUR budget because you already have the money, and all you need is their permission.
Bless your heart, you never know you may get one. Let you in on a little secret if they say no maybe they cant at the time. Your parents love you so much!!!!! Times are tough. I had to answer because it reminds me of my son. He is 15, I would give him the world if i could afford it and oh he asks!!!! ( most parents try, I am sure they will if they can) pray about it
A desktop is better than a laptop becoz you can upgrade it
but you still want a laptop than you should make sure that the laptop you are buying is neccessory and has great features which your parents would appriciate.
don't waste your money on a laptop, especially a POS Compaq or HP or Dell
ROFL, Since When do you have the right to use someone else's work computer to do what you want??
You have the Right to Remain Silent..
why dont you still ask your parents even though its your money. if you need it for school then explain to them that you need it for schoool
I'm thinking of getting the Compaq CQ60Z, a budget laptop with good features. However, we have one cpu running XP at home and my mom has a laptop from her job that is outdated and uncompatible with many of the uses I desire.
I also have enough money to buy it myself, but my parents always see it as their money when I ask to buy something.How do I convince my parents to get me a laptop?
First do all your homework, find out every possible answer to a question they would ask you. Show them you know what you're talking about. Print out a couple of documents suggesting it's a good deal and has good specifications.
Tell them about your failing desktop, if it helps, let them know it will help your school by having a mobile computer at hand.
Elaborate to your parents on how you will take care of it. Use prior experiences to show your parents you are responsible.
To add the cherry to the top, tell your parents that it might even benefit them, show them how they might be able to do some things on it when you are not using it.
Hope it helps.How do I convince my parents to get me a laptop?
';don't waste your money on a laptop, especially a POS Compaq or HP or Dell
ROFL, Since When do you have the right to use someone else's work computer to do what you want??
You have the Right to Remain Silent..';
Shut the **** up you lil jackass. You got da right to remain silent so sit yo *** down
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Get all the information on the laptop you want (special features, price and what not.) Come to them in a very mature tactic. Tell them that you've been looking into different laptops because it's something I NEED for school work and it will also be helpful for them as well since their laptop doesn't have updated features. Tell them that it's in YOUR budget because you already have the money, and all you need is their permission.
Bless your heart, you never know you may get one. Let you in on a little secret if they say no maybe they cant at the time. Your parents love you so much!!!!! Times are tough. I had to answer because it reminds me of my son. He is 15, I would give him the world if i could afford it and oh he asks!!!! ( most parents try, I am sure they will if they can) pray about it
A desktop is better than a laptop becoz you can upgrade it
but you still want a laptop than you should make sure that the laptop you are buying is neccessory and has great features which your parents would appriciate.
don't waste your money on a laptop, especially a POS Compaq or HP or Dell
ROFL, Since When do you have the right to use someone else's work computer to do what you want??
You have the Right to Remain Silent..
why dont you still ask your parents even though its your money. if you need it for school then explain to them that you need it for schoool
How do I get my parents to let me have youtube account?
I love to sing and I really want to share my voice with the world. Because I'm not famous yet youtube would be the first step.How do I get my parents to let me have youtube account?
S,
What you need to do, is explain to your parents about your passion and that it would be a great way to make a step in the right direction regarding what you want to accomplish with that account.
Regarding the 'SAFE' issue, WITH YOUR PARENTS, try viewing an inappropriate video and you will see that a message will pop up saying that you must be 18 years or older to view this video.
Then make an account and put in your real age. I never put my real age on things, but putting your real age in YouTube is great! It blocks inappropriate content to be viewed. And will not let you view it.How do I get my parents to let me have youtube account?
Hi,
Hmm tell your parents that it is safe... and it is...
There are mean people in youtube so they might leave bad comments like : You cant Sing, YOU SUCK, Stuffs like that... But if you can Sing really well and your friendly, only 1-100 will post that kind of comment.
If you can handle that then go ahead and make one. :)
www.youtube.com
Hope this helps~
why wouldn't they let you???
seriously, I think that's dumb.....
if u really are into singing and want to start taking steps into being known, create one even if they don't let u....if u do email me ergoagent@yahoo.com, I would like to hear u sing :D
Share your passion with them. If you are really young maybe you can get your parents to set up an account and help manage it with you. Be respectful with your parents decision whatever it may be.
Explain it to them.
Ask them? You could register on the site on your own, too.
just make 1 and dont tell them that u made 1. trust me, America is free country. Justice and right for every1.
just make one. They'd never find out
S,
What you need to do, is explain to your parents about your passion and that it would be a great way to make a step in the right direction regarding what you want to accomplish with that account.
Regarding the 'SAFE' issue, WITH YOUR PARENTS, try viewing an inappropriate video and you will see that a message will pop up saying that you must be 18 years or older to view this video.
Then make an account and put in your real age. I never put my real age on things, but putting your real age in YouTube is great! It blocks inappropriate content to be viewed. And will not let you view it.How do I get my parents to let me have youtube account?
Hi,
Hmm tell your parents that it is safe... and it is...
There are mean people in youtube so they might leave bad comments like : You cant Sing, YOU SUCK, Stuffs like that... But if you can Sing really well and your friendly, only 1-100 will post that kind of comment.
If you can handle that then go ahead and make one. :)
www.youtube.com
Hope this helps~
why wouldn't they let you???
seriously, I think that's dumb.....
if u really are into singing and want to start taking steps into being known, create one even if they don't let u....if u do email me ergoagent@yahoo.com, I would like to hear u sing :D
Share your passion with them. If you are really young maybe you can get your parents to set up an account and help manage it with you. Be respectful with your parents decision whatever it may be.
Explain it to them.
Ask them? You could register on the site on your own, too.
just make 1 and dont tell them that u made 1. trust me, America is free country. Justice and right for every1.
just make one. They'd never find out
How do I convince my parents to get me a cell phone?
I'm 14, and I think I'm responsible enough. I am willing, if I go over on my bill, to pay the extra. I want a cell phone. I kind of think I need one. I need to be able to get ahold of my parents, without relying on other people's phones. I don't know how to convince my mom to get me a phone though. Help!How do I convince my parents to get me a cell phone?
tell them that they can always know where you are, once i got my cell phone it made communication with my parents much easier. your a teenager and are going to have plans and be hanging out, tell them that they can always call you and it;s safe in case of emergencies.How do I convince my parents to get me a cell phone?
Don't. Get a job and buy your own
Well, first off have you talked to her about this? I'm sure if you discuss with her that your willing to be responsible and if you do go over your bill, say something like your willing to pay however much it was.
I'm sure she will let you once you dicuss it with her.
tell her it's for security reasons. It works both ways; you may want to get a hold of her but she may also need to get a hold of you! There isn't always a (dirty...full of diseases) payphone for you to reach her, and your friends may not always be so generous.
get yourself in danger for a couple times (even fake ones) and tell them you couldn't get a hold of your parents wwhen you needed them. And tell'em a cell phone would have been nice in that situation.
Am I evil? Yes' I am...
tell them stuff like ';if i gt lost i cannot contact anybody'; or if im out with my friends and u need me to come home, you cannot contact me without a cell phone'; or ';i might need it for emergencies'; u mite get a crappy 1 bt its still a cell phone
You can either show that you're responsible by doing extra chores (not just making your bed or taking out the trash). I'm talking about helping cook dinner once a week or dusting the house once a week.
Or you can do odd jobs around the neighborhood to get some extra money.
Otherwise, wait until you get a job so you can pay for the phone yourself.
One last option is to talk to your mom about a prepaid phone and you pay for any additional minutes, if needed.
tell your mom that having a cellphone is very very very essential to each and everybody in this big world of ours. and it is also a medium of communication.
a hey, i never tried having a best answer...hope i might have one.tnx
Just tell them how important a cell phone is. Example 1- I saw on the news the other week a 14 year old girl was trapped in her basement and a fire started. If she had not had the cell to call 911 she'd be dead. Example 2- (a story from my teacher about how it was important to get a cell phone) One day she was in her car and this man came up to the door and asked for a ride. She said no and he wouldn't go away, he even tried to open the door %26amp; break the glass. So she drove away, and he jumped in his car and followed her. She had through back allies n stuff until she lost him.
Just keep on with stories like these %26amp; convince them. It convinced my mom. heheh. ;)
tell them that they can always know where you are, once i got my cell phone it made communication with my parents much easier. your a teenager and are going to have plans and be hanging out, tell them that they can always call you and it;s safe in case of emergencies.How do I convince my parents to get me a cell phone?
Don't. Get a job and buy your own
Well, first off have you talked to her about this? I'm sure if you discuss with her that your willing to be responsible and if you do go over your bill, say something like your willing to pay however much it was.
I'm sure she will let you once you dicuss it with her.
tell her it's for security reasons. It works both ways; you may want to get a hold of her but she may also need to get a hold of you! There isn't always a (dirty...full of diseases) payphone for you to reach her, and your friends may not always be so generous.
get yourself in danger for a couple times (even fake ones) and tell them you couldn't get a hold of your parents wwhen you needed them. And tell'em a cell phone would have been nice in that situation.
Am I evil? Yes' I am...
tell them stuff like ';if i gt lost i cannot contact anybody'; or if im out with my friends and u need me to come home, you cannot contact me without a cell phone'; or ';i might need it for emergencies'; u mite get a crappy 1 bt its still a cell phone
You can either show that you're responsible by doing extra chores (not just making your bed or taking out the trash). I'm talking about helping cook dinner once a week or dusting the house once a week.
Or you can do odd jobs around the neighborhood to get some extra money.
Otherwise, wait until you get a job so you can pay for the phone yourself.
One last option is to talk to your mom about a prepaid phone and you pay for any additional minutes, if needed.
tell your mom that having a cellphone is very very very essential to each and everybody in this big world of ours. and it is also a medium of communication.
a hey, i never tried having a best answer...hope i might have one.tnx
Just tell them how important a cell phone is. Example 1- I saw on the news the other week a 14 year old girl was trapped in her basement and a fire started. If she had not had the cell to call 911 she'd be dead. Example 2- (a story from my teacher about how it was important to get a cell phone) One day she was in her car and this man came up to the door and asked for a ride. She said no and he wouldn't go away, he even tried to open the door %26amp; break the glass. So she drove away, and he jumped in his car and followed her. She had through back allies n stuff until she lost him.
Just keep on with stories like these %26amp; convince them. It convinced my mom. heheh. ;)
How do I convince my parents to let me do this?
My parents are really overprotective, and even though I'm 17 they still don't let me do A LOT of things. My friend invited me to a club this friday, and I want to go because I've never been to one before, but I don't know how to approach my parents about this. I've never asked for permission to do something like it before %26gt;.%26gt; And I've never even hung out with this friend outside of school before.
Or, I could use ideas for a really good lie too.How do I convince my parents to let me do this?
You're underage, wait til it's legal and you'll have more fun. Respect your parents, they're just trying to raise you right. If you want to hang out with this friend outside of school then go shopping or to the movies.
Clubs are overrated. Bunch of sweaty guys trying to grope you. I'm of a legal age %26amp; I don't even like clubs.How do I convince my parents to let me do this?
Well, I've only hung out with 1 friend outside of school, so I think I'm worse off...But the best thing I can suggest for a lie is ';Hey, mom, dad, can I go study at (???)'s this friday? She's gonna have a couple friends over with her, sorta like a study party.'; Only works if you've been trying to get your grades good. Or just say you wanna hang out with some friends on friday...I don't know. Just be lucky someone's inviting you somewhere.
i would say if u want to go ask them.. dont try going behind their backs and dont lie.. because truth always comes out.. if they say u cant go is because the might feel is not a safe place for u to be.. but if they find out u went with out their persmission trust me.. u will loose their trust and that is something u dont want to do.. once u loose it u wont get it back.. clubs are not all that.. but their will be a time when u will be able to make that choice of going.. good luck..
I think you shouldn't lie cause if you do and your parents find out, (which they will, their resources are limitless) you will probably be in alot of trouble so i suggest that you find a good way to ask them, they will respect you for it and you will respect yourself.
dont tell them your going to a club say your going to the movies
Or, I could use ideas for a really good lie too.How do I convince my parents to let me do this?
You're underage, wait til it's legal and you'll have more fun. Respect your parents, they're just trying to raise you right. If you want to hang out with this friend outside of school then go shopping or to the movies.
Clubs are overrated. Bunch of sweaty guys trying to grope you. I'm of a legal age %26amp; I don't even like clubs.How do I convince my parents to let me do this?
Well, I've only hung out with 1 friend outside of school, so I think I'm worse off...But the best thing I can suggest for a lie is ';Hey, mom, dad, can I go study at (???)'s this friday? She's gonna have a couple friends over with her, sorta like a study party.'; Only works if you've been trying to get your grades good. Or just say you wanna hang out with some friends on friday...I don't know. Just be lucky someone's inviting you somewhere.
i would say if u want to go ask them.. dont try going behind their backs and dont lie.. because truth always comes out.. if they say u cant go is because the might feel is not a safe place for u to be.. but if they find out u went with out their persmission trust me.. u will loose their trust and that is something u dont want to do.. once u loose it u wont get it back.. clubs are not all that.. but their will be a time when u will be able to make that choice of going.. good luck..
I think you shouldn't lie cause if you do and your parents find out, (which they will, their resources are limitless) you will probably be in alot of trouble so i suggest that you find a good way to ask them, they will respect you for it and you will respect yourself.
dont tell them your going to a club say your going to the movies
How can you persuade your parents into letting a friend sleep over?
The fair is this weekend (October 31st) and I want my friend to sleep over so how do I persuade/convince my parents into him spending the night?How can you persuade your parents into letting a friend sleep over?
Tell them what you want to do. Make sure your parents meet him ahead of time. If they don't have it, give them his parents phone number and address so they know that permission is given on that side of things.
Solve as many of the problems and questions before you talk with them as you can and then explain that you won't be going out and doing insane things on Halloween like lots of kids do.
Get their trust and then take a deep breath and ask.How can you persuade your parents into letting a friend sleep over?
offer to clean the whole house and do extra chores explain why you want him to sleep over. you have to give to get
Tell them what you want to do. Make sure your parents meet him ahead of time. If they don't have it, give them his parents phone number and address so they know that permission is given on that side of things.
Solve as many of the problems and questions before you talk with them as you can and then explain that you won't be going out and doing insane things on Halloween like lots of kids do.
Get their trust and then take a deep breath and ask.How can you persuade your parents into letting a friend sleep over?
offer to clean the whole house and do extra chores explain why you want him to sleep over. you have to give to get
What are your thoughts on older children caring for themselves while a parent sleeps?
Let's say 10, 11, 12+ year old kids. Mom works day shift, Dad has to work nights to make ends meet. At least one parent is home at all times, but Dad sleeps until noon because he gets off work at 4 am.
Do you think it's wrong of the Dad to sleep until noon with let's say two kids ages 10 and 13 at home? Do you think those two kids are capable of caring for themselves for a few hours as long as Dad is there?What are your thoughts on older children caring for themselves while a parent sleeps?
I think it's fine. It's not like the parents are just being lazy--they have to work. I think it would be unreasonable to expect Dad to stay up. If a parent is there, they can wake them up if something is wrong.What are your thoughts on older children caring for themselves while a parent sleeps?
At the ages you list, for most of the year they'd be getting themselves off to school, and at those ages a child should be capable of doing that. For days when they're not in school, there's no reason a child that age shouldn't be able to prepare a bowl of cereal and toast, especially the thirteen year old. Unless the parents are aware they have super mischievous or children that disregard the rules, it shouldn't be a problem. If anything catastrophic were to happen, dad's right there to be woken up.
No. It's fine.
Kids don't need (or want) someone hovering over them 24/7. It'll boost their self esteem and confidence and independence to look after themselves. And they can always wake their father up. Contrary to pop culture, most fathers are perfectly capable of parenting.
I'd say for the family if they're worrying about a few hours of not being hovered over, to just cut the umbilical cord already. They're fine. Kids historically (and even today in less neurotic, smothering societies) have been looking after themselves a lot earlier, and when given the opportunity, can be just as capable of doing so today.
There's Nothing wrong with that because there 10 and 13 years old, so there going to be in school. So say there in school from 8am-3pm. Dad will be awake by the time they get home. If he's still asleep the kids should be self sufficent enough to take care of themselves. And if the 10 year old can't take care of them then the 13 year old can always help. And if a problem arises then the kids can wake the dad. They should be fine.
Yes, they are capable. if they were home alone, I would say no, but dad is there in case they need anything. They are capable of making themselves breakfast (cereal, microwave breakfast, but DO NOT use the stove). Dad can make lunch when he gets up. They can watch TV or do chores until dad gets up, it should only be a 3 or 4 hours from the time they get up.
Plus, this time of year, the kids should be in school anyway.
Yes.
My parents loved and cared for us, but they expected a certain amount of independece from us. By the age of 12 we were expected to do our own wash, and prepare our own breakfast and lunches (for school, too) clean our own bathrooms, and keep our belongings put away, Older children were expected to help younger children.
I don't think that's bad at all, as long as your children are responsible.
how long are they by themselves? i would figure that age should be in school. as long as mom or dad gets them off to school.
if not in school...... i dont know. i guess maybe. personally i would feel guilty sleeping while my kids where up. even at those ages. i mean i was able to function on very little sleep with both of my kids when they were newborns. i did it and survived.
I am a semi pro golfer and I need my sleep. I always sleep in till noon and my 4 year old fends for himself till then. he knows how to use the toaster and or get his own bowl of cereal. If my 4 yo can do it a 10+ yo can.
Yep they are perfectly fine. I have a 11 year old sister and I am 14 and both my parents work all day. And we are fine.
yeah i don't see why not. if anything happens dads still there and they can wake him up.
at 13 i was baby sitting multiple young kids( aged 2-8) at a time by myself..
Absolutly, they probably love it as they can play DS or PS2 all the want lol (at least thats how my 10 year olds feel when I sleep in)
yes families have to work together to make things work ..
Of course! If there is an emergency they can wake up dad. They would be fine!
Yeah.... if there is anything wrong the kids can just wake Dad up.
i think its ok as long as they know the typical safety precautions.estee lauder
Do you think it's wrong of the Dad to sleep until noon with let's say two kids ages 10 and 13 at home? Do you think those two kids are capable of caring for themselves for a few hours as long as Dad is there?What are your thoughts on older children caring for themselves while a parent sleeps?
I think it's fine. It's not like the parents are just being lazy--they have to work. I think it would be unreasonable to expect Dad to stay up. If a parent is there, they can wake them up if something is wrong.What are your thoughts on older children caring for themselves while a parent sleeps?
At the ages you list, for most of the year they'd be getting themselves off to school, and at those ages a child should be capable of doing that. For days when they're not in school, there's no reason a child that age shouldn't be able to prepare a bowl of cereal and toast, especially the thirteen year old. Unless the parents are aware they have super mischievous or children that disregard the rules, it shouldn't be a problem. If anything catastrophic were to happen, dad's right there to be woken up.
No. It's fine.
Kids don't need (or want) someone hovering over them 24/7. It'll boost their self esteem and confidence and independence to look after themselves. And they can always wake their father up. Contrary to pop culture, most fathers are perfectly capable of parenting.
I'd say for the family if they're worrying about a few hours of not being hovered over, to just cut the umbilical cord already. They're fine. Kids historically (and even today in less neurotic, smothering societies) have been looking after themselves a lot earlier, and when given the opportunity, can be just as capable of doing so today.
There's Nothing wrong with that because there 10 and 13 years old, so there going to be in school. So say there in school from 8am-3pm. Dad will be awake by the time they get home. If he's still asleep the kids should be self sufficent enough to take care of themselves. And if the 10 year old can't take care of them then the 13 year old can always help. And if a problem arises then the kids can wake the dad. They should be fine.
Yes, they are capable. if they were home alone, I would say no, but dad is there in case they need anything. They are capable of making themselves breakfast (cereal, microwave breakfast, but DO NOT use the stove). Dad can make lunch when he gets up. They can watch TV or do chores until dad gets up, it should only be a 3 or 4 hours from the time they get up.
Plus, this time of year, the kids should be in school anyway.
Yes.
My parents loved and cared for us, but they expected a certain amount of independece from us. By the age of 12 we were expected to do our own wash, and prepare our own breakfast and lunches (for school, too) clean our own bathrooms, and keep our belongings put away, Older children were expected to help younger children.
I don't think that's bad at all, as long as your children are responsible.
how long are they by themselves? i would figure that age should be in school. as long as mom or dad gets them off to school.
if not in school...... i dont know. i guess maybe. personally i would feel guilty sleeping while my kids where up. even at those ages. i mean i was able to function on very little sleep with both of my kids when they were newborns. i did it and survived.
I am a semi pro golfer and I need my sleep. I always sleep in till noon and my 4 year old fends for himself till then. he knows how to use the toaster and or get his own bowl of cereal. If my 4 yo can do it a 10+ yo can.
Yep they are perfectly fine. I have a 11 year old sister and I am 14 and both my parents work all day. And we are fine.
yeah i don't see why not. if anything happens dads still there and they can wake him up.
at 13 i was baby sitting multiple young kids( aged 2-8) at a time by myself..
Absolutly, they probably love it as they can play DS or PS2 all the want lol (at least thats how my 10 year olds feel when I sleep in)
yes families have to work together to make things work ..
Of course! If there is an emergency they can wake up dad. They would be fine!
Yeah.... if there is anything wrong the kids can just wake Dad up.
i think its ok as long as they know the typical safety precautions.
What are some songs about a bad relationship between child and parent?
Something a bit like Rufus Wainwright's song ';dinner at eight'; about his father.
I want something more about a bad relationship with a son and mum but whatever you know works(Y)
So please help me on this?What are some songs about a bad relationship between child and parent?
perfect by simple planWhat are some songs about a bad relationship between child and parent?
Luca, that one enimem, how ever you spell that idiot's name..I don't listen to those kind of songs. But, I do know that Luca song, but forgot who it was sung by some girl. Oh, Cats In The Cradle by Cat Stevens, the dad just wasn't there for him, he didn't have time for his son. Later when the boy got older, his dad wanted to have a relationship with his dad, but he didn't have time for him. Good song. Makes you think, Luca and Cats In the Cradle does.
Cats in the cradle by Cat Stevens is a good one about a young boy who wants to spend time with his dad but his dad is too busy and then in the end when the dad is retired and wants to spend time with his son. The son is now too busy.
';No Son of Mine'; by Genesis
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUm0W20gb鈥?/a> (live in Italy, 2007)
';Cat's in the Cradle'; by Harry Chapin
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3bht7S-3鈥?/a> (cover by Ugly Kid Joe)
Not quite Rufus but it's a nice song..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zO3jFImL鈥?/a>
';Cat's in the Cradle'; by Harry Chapin (the son makes all the same mistakes his father made raising him)
';Fancy Don't Let Me Down'; a country western by Reba McIntire (her mom sells her into prostitution)
';concrete angles'; its about a little girl being abused by her mom , then she finally dies . :) its sad , and sick . but its about a bad relationship with your mom if you want . :)
All at Once- By Bonnie Raitt
It describes how a mother has a fight with her daughter, who is affected by her father leaving. This is how I interpret it anyway.
you should listen to perfect by simple plan its good but its about a father and a son some bullshit but its true
When your gone- Avril Lavine
if that's how you spell her name.
Because it talks about how you need each other and you don't want to let the other go even after their gone.
uhhhmmmm jeramy by pearl jam a little not sure. it talks about ';daddy'; not really caring. something ';mommy wouldn't wear';
family protrait- Pink
Perfect- Simple Plan
My Lulluby- Maria Mena
Run Away love- Mary J Bridge and Ludacris
Runaway Love (Ludacris ft Mary J Blige)
Perfect by Alanis Morrisette
Everclear - Father of Mine
';whiskey lullaby'; by Brad Paisley
';Walking Disaster'; -Sum 41
The Little Girl- John Michael Montgomery
well it depends if your the kid or the parent.
Father and Son by Cat Stevens
bichy mom
mother efer
hate you
bad pelationship
cut my wrist
bleed on me
chop suey by system of a down (read the lyrics to it carfully)
family portrait -pink
perfect- simpleplan
Hell is for Children by Pat Benitar
Dad and son?
I love you this much - Jimmy Wayne.
what about Pink =family portrait ?
lindsey lohan confessions
concrete angel
perfect by simple plan
Cleaning out my closet by eminem
Cleaning out my closet- Eminem
ummm
perfect by simple paln
I want something more about a bad relationship with a son and mum but whatever you know works(Y)
So please help me on this?What are some songs about a bad relationship between child and parent?
perfect by simple planWhat are some songs about a bad relationship between child and parent?
Luca, that one enimem, how ever you spell that idiot's name..I don't listen to those kind of songs. But, I do know that Luca song, but forgot who it was sung by some girl. Oh, Cats In The Cradle by Cat Stevens, the dad just wasn't there for him, he didn't have time for his son. Later when the boy got older, his dad wanted to have a relationship with his dad, but he didn't have time for him. Good song. Makes you think, Luca and Cats In the Cradle does.
Cats in the cradle by Cat Stevens is a good one about a young boy who wants to spend time with his dad but his dad is too busy and then in the end when the dad is retired and wants to spend time with his son. The son is now too busy.
';No Son of Mine'; by Genesis
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JUm0W20gb鈥?/a> (live in Italy, 2007)
';Cat's in the Cradle'; by Harry Chapin
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3bht7S-3鈥?/a> (cover by Ugly Kid Joe)
Not quite Rufus but it's a nice song..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4zO3jFImL鈥?/a>
';Cat's in the Cradle'; by Harry Chapin (the son makes all the same mistakes his father made raising him)
';Fancy Don't Let Me Down'; a country western by Reba McIntire (her mom sells her into prostitution)
';concrete angles'; its about a little girl being abused by her mom , then she finally dies . :) its sad , and sick . but its about a bad relationship with your mom if you want . :)
All at Once- By Bonnie Raitt
It describes how a mother has a fight with her daughter, who is affected by her father leaving. This is how I interpret it anyway.
you should listen to perfect by simple plan its good but its about a father and a son some bullshit but its true
When your gone- Avril Lavine
if that's how you spell her name.
Because it talks about how you need each other and you don't want to let the other go even after their gone.
uhhhmmmm jeramy by pearl jam a little not sure. it talks about ';daddy'; not really caring. something ';mommy wouldn't wear';
family protrait- Pink
Perfect- Simple Plan
My Lulluby- Maria Mena
Run Away love- Mary J Bridge and Ludacris
Runaway Love (Ludacris ft Mary J Blige)
Perfect by Alanis Morrisette
Everclear - Father of Mine
';whiskey lullaby'; by Brad Paisley
';Walking Disaster'; -Sum 41
The Little Girl- John Michael Montgomery
well it depends if your the kid or the parent.
Father and Son by Cat Stevens
bichy mom
mother efer
hate you
bad pelationship
cut my wrist
bleed on me
chop suey by system of a down (read the lyrics to it carfully)
family portrait -pink
perfect- simpleplan
Hell is for Children by Pat Benitar
Dad and son?
I love you this much - Jimmy Wayne.
what about Pink =family portrait ?
lindsey lohan confessions
concrete angel
perfect by simple plan
Cleaning out my closet by eminem
Cleaning out my closet- Eminem
ummm
perfect by simple paln
What tells a person/parent that a teenage has engaged in sexual intercourse?
I was on the city bus the other day, and a parent group or something like, said they can tell if their kids/people have had sex or not; and the people without kids said they can always tell if a teenager/person has had sex. Before I could ask how they could tell, I was at my stop. Can you tell? If your a parents can you tell with your teenager? Were they pulling it out of the air, or otherwise elsewhere?What tells a person/parent that a teenage has engaged in sexual intercourse?
Alot of ppl would think im a total whore.
But im not im a virgin and absatnent.
Parents thinkin there kids are or arent virgins is only judging
if you think a kid is,ask them.
And i know some of the sweetest girls, that alot of ppl would think are total virgins
They arent
so you cant tell
usually
unless the kid like changes dramaticalyWhat tells a person/parent that a teenage has engaged in sexual intercourse?
What a lie. The only way they can tell is if you have an examination or your pregnant and showing.
There is no way on earth for a parent to know if you've had sex, as much as parents like to delude themselves into believing they know stuff like that. As in ';My kid would NEVER do drugs! I'd know!';
They are lying and trying to scare you. No one can tell, only your gynecologist.
They're lying, only a medical gyneocologist can tell.
well parents will smell your underware im told gross but true,then if you start wearing thongs look funny when you walk crap like that
Sometimes you can tell, but mostly you can't. Sometimes the girls will be walking a bit differently (with their legs further apart) for a day or two, and then there can be behavioral changes as well, such as being shyer around their parents and more confident around the opposite sex. Unfortunately, you can almost never be sure unless the girl gets pregnant or the kid comes up to you and says ';I'm not a virgin';.
you can't tell on a male, but you can for girls. if a girl has intercourse, her hymen is broken, i don't think you can on guys....
no they cant
they just like to think there smarter then there teenagers, and frighten themmm into thinking that they know everything....
no worries
these are the ways i can usually tell:
Girls: Legs wider apart while walking, if you knew them before there temperament will be different usually more cocky, possible self conscience, more giggly and is more confident around guys.
Boys: They walk differently almost excentuating their penis, legs also further apart, smiles more, cocky, hand by his penis alot, possibly tighter jeans, or the exact opposite, more baggy clothes, withdrawn and embarassed...
But its true you never can be totally sure...
Alot of ppl would think im a total whore.
But im not im a virgin and absatnent.
Parents thinkin there kids are or arent virgins is only judging
if you think a kid is,ask them.
And i know some of the sweetest girls, that alot of ppl would think are total virgins
They arent
so you cant tell
usually
unless the kid like changes dramaticalyWhat tells a person/parent that a teenage has engaged in sexual intercourse?
What a lie. The only way they can tell is if you have an examination or your pregnant and showing.
There is no way on earth for a parent to know if you've had sex, as much as parents like to delude themselves into believing they know stuff like that. As in ';My kid would NEVER do drugs! I'd know!';
They are lying and trying to scare you. No one can tell, only your gynecologist.
They're lying, only a medical gyneocologist can tell.
well parents will smell your underware im told gross but true,then if you start wearing thongs look funny when you walk crap like that
Sometimes you can tell, but mostly you can't. Sometimes the girls will be walking a bit differently (with their legs further apart) for a day or two, and then there can be behavioral changes as well, such as being shyer around their parents and more confident around the opposite sex. Unfortunately, you can almost never be sure unless the girl gets pregnant or the kid comes up to you and says ';I'm not a virgin';.
you can't tell on a male, but you can for girls. if a girl has intercourse, her hymen is broken, i don't think you can on guys....
no they cant
they just like to think there smarter then there teenagers, and frighten themmm into thinking that they know everything....
no worries
these are the ways i can usually tell:
Girls: Legs wider apart while walking, if you knew them before there temperament will be different usually more cocky, possible self conscience, more giggly and is more confident around guys.
Boys: They walk differently almost excentuating their penis, legs also further apart, smiles more, cocky, hand by his penis alot, possibly tighter jeans, or the exact opposite, more baggy clothes, withdrawn and embarassed...
But its true you never can be totally sure...
Is it right for local authourities to make criminals out of desperate parents?
Should parents who cheat the system to get their kids into better schools be made an example of?
Mr Ed Balls and co' are planning to ensure that well meaning, hard working, concerned parents are wacked with a stick yet again. I beleive rather than making an example of these concerened and probably very good parents, he should concentrate his efforts on improving the schools they seek to avoid.
What do you think?Is it right for local authourities to make criminals out of desperate parents?
The real issue is that any educational system which allows the quality of a child's education to be determined by the contents of their parents' bank accounts is deeply unfair and highly harmful to social mobility. The same life chances should be available to everyone purely based on merit and natural ability.
Bleating about ';cheating the system'; is missing the point. Don't blame parents for trying to keep their children out of crap schools, the crime is that the crap schools exist in the first place.Is it right for local authourities to make criminals out of desperate parents?
You ask
';Should parents who cheat the system to get their kids into better schools be made an example of?';
Yes. Why? Because only those parents that can afford to move into another catchment area can give their child this advantage.
I agree that the answer is to improve ALL educational standards, but using your financial clout to improve your child's chances is WRONG.
What sort of example to set your children by showing them that cheating is OK. How far is that from stealing, assault, murder.
My concern is that the child suffers due to the parents dishonesty by possibly being removed from the school that they have got used to, also think of the bullying they could get at a new school if it got out.
Punish the parents not the child
If you cheat and /or lie you should expect to be punished. I agree that poor or failing schools should be improved, but that is another issue.
If they tell lies about this what else are they lying about. Doesn't set a very good example to their children - tell lies to get your own way, I don't think so.
Crime re-generates cash for this country. The govt get loads of funding from the EU through their ';urban regeneration'; grants that are deliberately mis spent.
Cheats are cheats.
Mr Ed Balls and co' are planning to ensure that well meaning, hard working, concerned parents are wacked with a stick yet again. I beleive rather than making an example of these concerened and probably very good parents, he should concentrate his efforts on improving the schools they seek to avoid.
What do you think?Is it right for local authourities to make criminals out of desperate parents?
The real issue is that any educational system which allows the quality of a child's education to be determined by the contents of their parents' bank accounts is deeply unfair and highly harmful to social mobility. The same life chances should be available to everyone purely based on merit and natural ability.
Bleating about ';cheating the system'; is missing the point. Don't blame parents for trying to keep their children out of crap schools, the crime is that the crap schools exist in the first place.Is it right for local authourities to make criminals out of desperate parents?
You ask
';Should parents who cheat the system to get their kids into better schools be made an example of?';
Yes. Why? Because only those parents that can afford to move into another catchment area can give their child this advantage.
I agree that the answer is to improve ALL educational standards, but using your financial clout to improve your child's chances is WRONG.
What sort of example to set your children by showing them that cheating is OK. How far is that from stealing, assault, murder.
My concern is that the child suffers due to the parents dishonesty by possibly being removed from the school that they have got used to, also think of the bullying they could get at a new school if it got out.
Punish the parents not the child
If you cheat and /or lie you should expect to be punished. I agree that poor or failing schools should be improved, but that is another issue.
If they tell lies about this what else are they lying about. Doesn't set a very good example to their children - tell lies to get your own way, I don't think so.
Crime re-generates cash for this country. The govt get loads of funding from the EU through their ';urban regeneration'; grants that are deliberately mis spent.
Cheats are cheats.
What Tax form I need to fill out for gifts from my parents in law?
Hi, my father in law sent us large amount of money (%26gt; 200K US dollars) from foreign country to U.S. I am sure I don't need to pay tax on it. What form I need to fill out to report this out?
Thanks!What Tax form I need to fill out for gifts from my parents in law?
You don't report it.
Thanks!What Tax form I need to fill out for gifts from my parents in law?
You don't report it.
Wouldn't it be nice if Yahoo added an Adoption Category to the Pregnancy & Parenting Group?
As an adoptive mom who struggled for 7+ years with infertility, it is sometimes quite emotional for me to read about all the pregnancy related stuff (no offense to anyone). I would be so nice to just have an ';adoption'; category to choose from. Anyone else agree?Wouldn't it be nice if Yahoo added an Adoption Category to the Pregnancy %26amp; Parenting Group?
Thats a great idea and actually there isnt one here but if you go to babycenter.com there is a message board for this and many many other specific parennting issues. I think also an abortion catergory bc the women carrying their babies to term shouldnt have to read about other women terminating their baby's lives and go there only if they want to.Wouldn't it be nice if Yahoo added an Adoption Category to the Pregnancy %26amp; Parenting Group?
I think thats an excellent idea
Yes, I agree because there are so many children that families and maybe those children can find loving parents. Maybe some would be parents would find some children to love that will love them back. I think that it would be good for those that want to communicate or form friendships,possibly share answers or questions could be answered that could make the way eaiser for someone else because there is information that will help another person seeking the same things.
i think that would be great we have been trying to conceive for 3 yrs and only have one more chance with a new doc. then we are going to look into adoption and i have many questions
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my husband and i are adopting... and i know i have looked here for a place to ask adoption questions before...
i think yahoo should definitely add an Adoption Category
Thats a great idea and actually there isnt one here but if you go to babycenter.com there is a message board for this and many many other specific parennting issues. I think also an abortion catergory bc the women carrying their babies to term shouldnt have to read about other women terminating their baby's lives and go there only if they want to.Wouldn't it be nice if Yahoo added an Adoption Category to the Pregnancy %26amp; Parenting Group?
I think thats an excellent idea
Yes, I agree because there are so many children that families and maybe those children can find loving parents. Maybe some would be parents would find some children to love that will love them back. I think that it would be good for those that want to communicate or form friendships,possibly share answers or questions could be answered that could make the way eaiser for someone else because there is information that will help another person seeking the same things.
i think that would be great we have been trying to conceive for 3 yrs and only have one more chance with a new doc. then we are going to look into adoption and i have many questions
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my husband and i are adopting... and i know i have looked here for a place to ask adoption questions before...
i think yahoo should definitely add an Adoption Category
How do you tell parents about a young marriage?
My boyfriend is 19 and I'm currently 17 and we have talked about getting married. I know we are young but we have been through lots and love each other more than anything. My parents are very strict and I'm scared to tell them, so how do I tell them we have been thinking about this?How do you tell parents about a young marriage?
What does strict have to do with them being right?
THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.
It is a statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is when females reach full mature on the physical, emotional, and hormonal levels. At this point, a woman is fully prepared to have and handle children, as well as a male that is still not fully mature.
Males don’t reach full physical and hormonal maturity until age 30. This is also when they reach their peak emotional maturity, but not to the point of being fully independent. Half of the male emotional health comes from a woman. The biochemical frequency range of the male brain adjusts itself to match that of the female, developing an emotional symbiotic relationship.
Couples who begin cohabiting and/or get married prior to age 24 can find themselves drawing away from each other as each reaches full maturity. Their whole view of the world, and each other, changes. This doesn’t happen to all couples, but clearly it is a factor in most relationship breakdowns.
In a couple, who has made the right choices, and found that person who truly compliments them, a symbiotic relationship develops also on the physical level. There is a reason why humans were designed to be monogamous. It comes down to the sexual experience that goes beyond pleasure and reproduction.
Seminal plasma (fluid carrying semen) and vaginal fluids contain addition chemicals that the other sex needs. Chemicals in seminal plasma help strengthen the Uterine Wall, not only making it stronger for the carrying of a fetus, but also because the uterus provides physical support for other organs, such as the bladder and the intestinal tract. For males, vaginal fluid reinforces their immune system and affects future production of semen. But, there’s a downside.
The human body adapts to the specific molecular makeup of the seminal plasma and vaginal fluid. The two bodies develop a symbiotic relationship that becomes dependent upon the other. Having multiple partners keeps these functions in constant disarray, always trying to adapt to a new molecular makeup, affecting the overall health of the individual.
This is one of the reasons, and benefits, of developing a long term monogamous relation. For men, there are additional reasons.
A married male lives 20 years longer than a single male, on average. Aside from the physical symbiosis, because a woman provides emotional support, he has less stress, an overall cause of frequent death in males.
For a female, her reproductive and sexual health last longer, not only with the ability to reproduce into her 40s and even 50s, but also continue the ability for sexual pleasure well into the later years.
A monogamous couple become a single, symbiotic unit, standing ready to take on what the world throws at them. They provide the umbrella of strength for the family and the protection of the children. They are core from which the children draw their knowledge and experience of what a family should be, so that they may follow the example of the parents, when they reach maturity and venture out into the world.
This is what it is truly like to be in a relationship, when you make the right choices.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications…How do you tell parents about a young marriage?
Are you in love and imagine a dream marriage which statistically people who married young will divorce young.
Educate yourself until 22 yo
marry or have a bf during this time.
if married or have a bff, have no children for at least 3-5 years this is the time to prepare your house and finances for a family with the bff
You are to young for marriage in these times. You do not have the experience or knowledge for relationships. Do not have a child for an entrapment for marriage this will cause hardship and resentment.
Tell them you want to have a serious talk and sit them down. Tell them you've been thinking about something for a very long time and come up with points that could possibly convince them. Make sure you tell them to let you finish and to not interrupt you and that you want to hear what they have to say (You don't necessarily have to want to). Make sure you present yourself in a very mature fashion so that they can see that you're taking this seriously and not as a spur of the moment kind of thing. I'm not sure if it'd be good to have your boyfriend there or not. Just think of some compelling arguments. Tell them ultimately it's your choice but you really want to know what they think and that you also want their support but it is ultimately up to you because it's your life and your happiness and you want them to be a part of it.
I'm not going to be preachy or anything or say that you are too young and don't do it or something like that. But I'm going to ask you. Are you ready for marriage. Try and observe ALL of the questions here at Y!Answers you'll see 99% are of cheatin and breakin up, getting on and getting off. I've never seen a question here other than that. Do you think you are ready for trials ahead? How about jobs? Are you ready to get one? All I'm saying is, think of not only your own, but your future kids as well. Times are hard and that's the reality of it. Go ahead and tell your parents, be brave and show them that you are responsible enough to raise your family. If you think you can convince them and this is what you really want, and you can survive without help from anybody else? Then by all means...knock yourself out.
Honestly, calm and by showing them you're mature enough for this. (If you are). Tell them what you told us here, that you've been through a lot and you love eachother. Maybe they'll understand.
Personally, I'd advice you to have a long engagement first and see how it goes. You're very young and if this is truly how you feel about eachother, things won't change in the future. There is plenty of time to get married.
just tell them that you all are talking about getting married it doesn't have to tomorrow that you are getting married just let them know that you are talking about it and want to know what there feelings are about it with out getting upset they may ask you to wait and hopefully you can agree to do that till you are 18 then what can they say good luck
When parents are strict, it can be because they want to spare their children the pitfalls of life. But I bet they would rather you tell them in a calm way together than not. Give them time to get used to the idea.
Don't yell. Wanna be adults? Then show them you are or not.
make sure its something that u really a want before you jump into something as seroius as marriage. if you know that your parents are gonna freak then wait until you know for sure this is what you want before you tell them.
Approach them as a mature young lady. Have him talk to them to. Also plan to do it after you have turned 18 and graduated high school. That will make them feel better about things.
Wait until your 18 and elope. Nothing they can do about it then. Start saving for Vegas baby!estee lauder
What does strict have to do with them being right?
THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.
It is a statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is when females reach full mature on the physical, emotional, and hormonal levels. At this point, a woman is fully prepared to have and handle children, as well as a male that is still not fully mature.
Males don’t reach full physical and hormonal maturity until age 30. This is also when they reach their peak emotional maturity, but not to the point of being fully independent. Half of the male emotional health comes from a woman. The biochemical frequency range of the male brain adjusts itself to match that of the female, developing an emotional symbiotic relationship.
Couples who begin cohabiting and/or get married prior to age 24 can find themselves drawing away from each other as each reaches full maturity. Their whole view of the world, and each other, changes. This doesn’t happen to all couples, but clearly it is a factor in most relationship breakdowns.
In a couple, who has made the right choices, and found that person who truly compliments them, a symbiotic relationship develops also on the physical level. There is a reason why humans were designed to be monogamous. It comes down to the sexual experience that goes beyond pleasure and reproduction.
Seminal plasma (fluid carrying semen) and vaginal fluids contain addition chemicals that the other sex needs. Chemicals in seminal plasma help strengthen the Uterine Wall, not only making it stronger for the carrying of a fetus, but also because the uterus provides physical support for other organs, such as the bladder and the intestinal tract. For males, vaginal fluid reinforces their immune system and affects future production of semen. But, there’s a downside.
The human body adapts to the specific molecular makeup of the seminal plasma and vaginal fluid. The two bodies develop a symbiotic relationship that becomes dependent upon the other. Having multiple partners keeps these functions in constant disarray, always trying to adapt to a new molecular makeup, affecting the overall health of the individual.
This is one of the reasons, and benefits, of developing a long term monogamous relation. For men, there are additional reasons.
A married male lives 20 years longer than a single male, on average. Aside from the physical symbiosis, because a woman provides emotional support, he has less stress, an overall cause of frequent death in males.
For a female, her reproductive and sexual health last longer, not only with the ability to reproduce into her 40s and even 50s, but also continue the ability for sexual pleasure well into the later years.
A monogamous couple become a single, symbiotic unit, standing ready to take on what the world throws at them. They provide the umbrella of strength for the family and the protection of the children. They are core from which the children draw their knowledge and experience of what a family should be, so that they may follow the example of the parents, when they reach maturity and venture out into the world.
This is what it is truly like to be in a relationship, when you make the right choices.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications…How do you tell parents about a young marriage?
Are you in love and imagine a dream marriage which statistically people who married young will divorce young.
Educate yourself until 22 yo
marry or have a bf during this time.
if married or have a bff, have no children for at least 3-5 years this is the time to prepare your house and finances for a family with the bff
You are to young for marriage in these times. You do not have the experience or knowledge for relationships. Do not have a child for an entrapment for marriage this will cause hardship and resentment.
Tell them you want to have a serious talk and sit them down. Tell them you've been thinking about something for a very long time and come up with points that could possibly convince them. Make sure you tell them to let you finish and to not interrupt you and that you want to hear what they have to say (You don't necessarily have to want to). Make sure you present yourself in a very mature fashion so that they can see that you're taking this seriously and not as a spur of the moment kind of thing. I'm not sure if it'd be good to have your boyfriend there or not. Just think of some compelling arguments. Tell them ultimately it's your choice but you really want to know what they think and that you also want their support but it is ultimately up to you because it's your life and your happiness and you want them to be a part of it.
I'm not going to be preachy or anything or say that you are too young and don't do it or something like that. But I'm going to ask you. Are you ready for marriage. Try and observe ALL of the questions here at Y!Answers you'll see 99% are of cheatin and breakin up, getting on and getting off. I've never seen a question here other than that. Do you think you are ready for trials ahead? How about jobs? Are you ready to get one? All I'm saying is, think of not only your own, but your future kids as well. Times are hard and that's the reality of it. Go ahead and tell your parents, be brave and show them that you are responsible enough to raise your family. If you think you can convince them and this is what you really want, and you can survive without help from anybody else? Then by all means...knock yourself out.
Honestly, calm and by showing them you're mature enough for this. (If you are). Tell them what you told us here, that you've been through a lot and you love eachother. Maybe they'll understand.
Personally, I'd advice you to have a long engagement first and see how it goes. You're very young and if this is truly how you feel about eachother, things won't change in the future. There is plenty of time to get married.
just tell them that you all are talking about getting married it doesn't have to tomorrow that you are getting married just let them know that you are talking about it and want to know what there feelings are about it with out getting upset they may ask you to wait and hopefully you can agree to do that till you are 18 then what can they say good luck
When parents are strict, it can be because they want to spare their children the pitfalls of life. But I bet they would rather you tell them in a calm way together than not. Give them time to get used to the idea.
Don't yell. Wanna be adults? Then show them you are or not.
make sure its something that u really a want before you jump into something as seroius as marriage. if you know that your parents are gonna freak then wait until you know for sure this is what you want before you tell them.
Approach them as a mature young lady. Have him talk to them to. Also plan to do it after you have turned 18 and graduated high school. That will make them feel better about things.
Wait until your 18 and elope. Nothing they can do about it then. Start saving for Vegas baby!
What is legal age in illinois and iowa for nipple piercing with parents consent?
im 14 and looking to get my nipples pierced. i just need to find out how old. ive seen on a few sites its 18 and any younger you need guardians consent. but ive been told you have to be at least 16 for that.What is legal age in illinois and iowa for nipple piercing with parents consent?
Remember all the things we wanted? Now all our memories -- they're haunted. We were always meant to say, ';goodbye.'; Even with our fists held high, it never would've worked out right: we were never meant for do or die. I didn't want us to burn out, I didn't come here to hold you -- now I can't stop.
I want you to know that it doesn't matter where we take this road, someone's gotta go. And I want you to know you couldn't have loved me better, but I want you to move on. So I'm already gone.What is legal age in illinois and iowa for nipple piercing with parents consent?
I'm with the person above me - any age with parental consent is legal. At least for Iowa anyway.
Some shops may have their own restrictions, but the actual law shouldn't restrict you. I got my lip pierced when I was 13 (back in 2001, but I assume the law hasn't changed) and I'm in Iowa. The first shop I went to said I had to be 15 with parental consent, but the second didn't have restrictions and just had my mom sign a paper. I assume the rules for lip piercings and nipple piercings aren't going to be any different, so just ask around at different shops to see if they'll do it with parental consent.
with parent consent or if you have someone 18 years of age with you, you can get them pierced at any age... well at least in illinois, im not sure about iowa. but yeah, i'm 99.9999999% sure that you can get a piercing at any age with parent consent or someone whose 18. because my 15 year old friend went to get her monroe and belly button with her 18 year old boyfriend, so im pretty sure you can get your nipples pierced with someone 18+.
honestly, let the interest fade for a bit before you commit. it hurts like a ***** and its nothing but a hassle thereafter. i've had my nipple pierced for over a years now, and i regret it now. you have to make sure it stays clean alllllll the time, it will get hit all the time (regardless of what you think, or how careful you are.)
sit on it for a while, before you go through with it. if you're still determined, just call your local shops they will tell you.
I'm sorry, I don't have an answer - I don't know the age restriction. No offense, but I'm just incredibly curious and I can't tell from your name: Are you a male or a female?
With parents consent as your question asks you can do it at any age.
Why would you want to do that even with your parents' consent?
what is nipple piercing?
18 for both.
oh god. im 14 and im going to say thats not hot at all
its creepy and im guessing 18
58
18
y would u wanna get ur nipples pierced???
i thot it wut 20. o well, idk, i'm confused.
ewww why would you want that done?
Remember all the things we wanted? Now all our memories -- they're haunted. We were always meant to say, ';goodbye.'; Even with our fists held high, it never would've worked out right: we were never meant for do or die. I didn't want us to burn out, I didn't come here to hold you -- now I can't stop.
I want you to know that it doesn't matter where we take this road, someone's gotta go. And I want you to know you couldn't have loved me better, but I want you to move on. So I'm already gone.What is legal age in illinois and iowa for nipple piercing with parents consent?
I'm with the person above me - any age with parental consent is legal. At least for Iowa anyway.
Some shops may have their own restrictions, but the actual law shouldn't restrict you. I got my lip pierced when I was 13 (back in 2001, but I assume the law hasn't changed) and I'm in Iowa. The first shop I went to said I had to be 15 with parental consent, but the second didn't have restrictions and just had my mom sign a paper. I assume the rules for lip piercings and nipple piercings aren't going to be any different, so just ask around at different shops to see if they'll do it with parental consent.
with parent consent or if you have someone 18 years of age with you, you can get them pierced at any age... well at least in illinois, im not sure about iowa. but yeah, i'm 99.9999999% sure that you can get a piercing at any age with parent consent or someone whose 18. because my 15 year old friend went to get her monroe and belly button with her 18 year old boyfriend, so im pretty sure you can get your nipples pierced with someone 18+.
honestly, let the interest fade for a bit before you commit. it hurts like a ***** and its nothing but a hassle thereafter. i've had my nipple pierced for over a years now, and i regret it now. you have to make sure it stays clean alllllll the time, it will get hit all the time (regardless of what you think, or how careful you are.)
sit on it for a while, before you go through with it. if you're still determined, just call your local shops they will tell you.
I'm sorry, I don't have an answer - I don't know the age restriction. No offense, but I'm just incredibly curious and I can't tell from your name: Are you a male or a female?
With parents consent as your question asks you can do it at any age.
Why would you want to do that even with your parents' consent?
what is nipple piercing?
18 for both.
oh god. im 14 and im going to say thats not hot at all
its creepy and im guessing 18
58
18
y would u wanna get ur nipples pierced???
i thot it wut 20. o well, idk, i'm confused.
ewww why would you want that done?
Parenting time rights in Michigan State?
My bf is fighting to see his 3 yr old son. he's been paying the mother child support the entire time and he had to go to supervised visits (for some reason, we still don't know why!) but my bf complied with what the court told him to do, he went to the 3 ordered visits and proved to the friend of the court that he is not an unfit parent. now, he talked to the caseworker this afternoon who told him that he could pick his son up on sunday for the first scheduled visit that has been ordered by the court. the court made the schedule because the mother wouldn't agree with my bf on any set times. after calling the caseworker to comfirm that we could go pick him up he called the mother who told him that he couldn't come pick him up on sunday, she said that he still had to wait another week although the caseworker just told him that it was this sunday. i know that if she refuses she will be in trouble with the court, but does he need anykind of written form that says he can get him?Parenting time rights in Michigan State?
If the court made the schedule then it is in writting. Go there on sunday if she refuses to let him have visitation go to the police and file a report!!! Your bf needs to get custody of his son. The mother is and will always be a bad mother because she is denying her son the opportunity to see his dad. She is using the child as a pawn to make the father suffer. The problem is that the child will suffer even worse. I would almost bet this mother will tell the child as he grows up that his father is a POS. Happens all the time and the child develops mental problems from that form of abuse.Parenting time rights in Michigan State?
Okay, I am going to clear this up. DO NOT CALL THE POLICE!! They don't care! It is a custody issue only. Not criminal so the poster who told you to call the police is wrong! And let me tell you that they will be all too unpleasant in telling you about it.
Now, for what you actually need to do. If the mother does not release the child at the appointed time the father must notify his caseworker. If it is the weekend he should do so on the next business day. He may also wish to talk with the casework as to the best way to handle these types of situations.
The best way to handle this since there is no one available in the case workers office or the court on Sunday, is have an official form from the office. If he goes to the pre-ordered transfer place to pick up the child, and she refuses to release the child, have him call the police. I'm not sure if the police can make her release the child to him, but they will certainly make a report of her refusal for him to take to court.
If the court made the schedule then it is in writting. Go there on sunday if she refuses to let him have visitation go to the police and file a report!!! Your bf needs to get custody of his son. The mother is and will always be a bad mother because she is denying her son the opportunity to see his dad. She is using the child as a pawn to make the father suffer. The problem is that the child will suffer even worse. I would almost bet this mother will tell the child as he grows up that his father is a POS. Happens all the time and the child develops mental problems from that form of abuse.Parenting time rights in Michigan State?
Okay, I am going to clear this up. DO NOT CALL THE POLICE!! They don't care! It is a custody issue only. Not criminal so the poster who told you to call the police is wrong! And let me tell you that they will be all too unpleasant in telling you about it.
Now, for what you actually need to do. If the mother does not release the child at the appointed time the father must notify his caseworker. If it is the weekend he should do so on the next business day. He may also wish to talk with the casework as to the best way to handle these types of situations.
The best way to handle this since there is no one available in the case workers office or the court on Sunday, is have an official form from the office. If he goes to the pre-ordered transfer place to pick up the child, and she refuses to release the child, have him call the police. I'm not sure if the police can make her release the child to him, but they will certainly make a report of her refusal for him to take to court.
Do you, as a parent, ever consider the environmental and/or sociological impact of your parenting choices?
Why or why not?
Discuss...Do you, as a parent, ever consider the environmental and/or sociological impact of your parenting choices?
i sure do!
we are a breastfeeding, cloth diapering, vegetarian, recycling, mother nature respecting family
my 5 year old is waaaaay more educated and consciencous of the world than most American adults
i live my life to leave the least footprint.....my daughter's will learn the same
i am also raising my daughter's to be aware of other ppl, to be tolerant and loving, and to always extend a helping handDo you, as a parent, ever consider the environmental and/or sociological impact of your parenting choices?
An eco-friendly lifestyle and responsible parenting are not mutually exclusive!
I live in Switzerland, the cleanest country on earth. I buy produce %26amp; meat at a farm in our village. I pay the equivalent of $1.50 for ONE trash bag to encourage people to recycle. (con鈥檛)
But those aren鈥檛 PARENTING decisions. When I breastfeed, it鈥檚 because it鈥檚 best for my child. The fact that it鈥檚 good for the environment is a bonus. You need to open your mind a little鈥搕he results are the same: happy, healthy children AND a bright future for the planet.
Every moment of every day. Especially now with the global village, and kids being more aware of the world outside their own home.
I agree with Lyn 100%.Any choice I make will be for the best of my children.I am more concerned for them than anything else..
most always..
especially environmental impacts.. which is why I only had 1 kid...
did you know the United Nations warned a few years ago that the #1 threat to continuted Human existance was our own population growth.. they reccommended a sustainable level of 5 BILLION (many scientists actually feel 500 Million would be better) - we ae currently OVER 6.5 BILLION and the problems are (or should be) Obvious.. deforestation, urban sprawl, air pollution, depletion of natural resources, stress,... etc
even 1 child is growth becuase you are still alive..
years ago women died in child birth often and few kids lived beyond the age of 6 yrs. the average lifespan was much lower than today...
SOOOOO the most responsible thing I ever did as a parent was have my tubes tied after my one and only child was born.
Yes, absolutely. It's our responsibility to do so. It's why I choose cloth diapers, organic foods and breastfeeding. It's why I try very hard to model patience, politeness and courtesy to my children. Society and the environment are a constant influence in everything I do, including parenting.
Absolutely. Our girls are with my husband and I for a comparitively short time, until they are grown women participating in the rest of society.
Our job and role as parents is to raise them to be responsible, respectful, and self sufficient women who will bring meaning and purpose to their own lives and the lives of others around them.
To raise them any other way would, I feel, be irresponsible.
I strive towards attachment parenting and gentle discipline in order to raise children that will grow into responsible, compassionate adults.
We choose to cloth diaper (though we're now using biodegradable disposables- gDiapers), breastfeed, homebirth, etc both for the benefits for ourselves but also the environmental impact.
I think it's important for parents to research and make educated choices!
So- my answer to your question is ABSOLUTELY!
Of course.
Our son is not due until March, but my husband and I have already discussed what values/issues/standards that we feel are important to impart to our child.
I think the greatest gift/skill you can give to any child is a love of learning. Children who are fascinated by the world and encouraged to learn about it are far more likely to respect others and the world in general.
The biggest issue for us has been that as atheists we want to find a way to allow our son to make his own decision about religion. I've always resented the fact that society attempted to force me to be religious and I want to avoid doing the opposite to my son. I want him to decide the place of religion in his life for himself.
I know that I am right about the existence of god, but I think it's an answer everyone needs to find for themselves. So we'll raise him on the principles of secular humanism, which I personally find to be the best philosophy for living.
Ahh... the old ';thumbs down for the atheist';... my old friend!
I tried to teach my kids to be good people. I taught them not to kill without a reason. I taught them to treat others as they would like to be treated (a concept not unique to the deeply religious.) I think I did a fair job. Nobody's perfect but I tried.
No.
Parenting choices are meant to be just that - choices we make for the benefit of our children, not the world at large.
The sociological and environmental effects of those decisions are secondary to the decision itself.
That said, certain decisions I make in my own life (recycle, conserve energy, etc.) set a good example for my children to follow.
Discuss...Do you, as a parent, ever consider the environmental and/or sociological impact of your parenting choices?
i sure do!
we are a breastfeeding, cloth diapering, vegetarian, recycling, mother nature respecting family
my 5 year old is waaaaay more educated and consciencous of the world than most American adults
i live my life to leave the least footprint.....my daughter's will learn the same
i am also raising my daughter's to be aware of other ppl, to be tolerant and loving, and to always extend a helping handDo you, as a parent, ever consider the environmental and/or sociological impact of your parenting choices?
An eco-friendly lifestyle and responsible parenting are not mutually exclusive!
I live in Switzerland, the cleanest country on earth. I buy produce %26amp; meat at a farm in our village. I pay the equivalent of $1.50 for ONE trash bag to encourage people to recycle. (con鈥檛)
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But those aren鈥檛 PARENTING decisions. When I breastfeed, it鈥檚 because it鈥檚 best for my child. The fact that it鈥檚 good for the environment is a bonus. You need to open your mind a little鈥搕he results are the same: happy, healthy children AND a bright future for the planet.
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Every moment of every day. Especially now with the global village, and kids being more aware of the world outside their own home.
I agree with Lyn 100%.Any choice I make will be for the best of my children.I am more concerned for them than anything else..
most always..
especially environmental impacts.. which is why I only had 1 kid...
did you know the United Nations warned a few years ago that the #1 threat to continuted Human existance was our own population growth.. they reccommended a sustainable level of 5 BILLION (many scientists actually feel 500 Million would be better) - we ae currently OVER 6.5 BILLION and the problems are (or should be) Obvious.. deforestation, urban sprawl, air pollution, depletion of natural resources, stress,... etc
even 1 child is growth becuase you are still alive..
years ago women died in child birth often and few kids lived beyond the age of 6 yrs. the average lifespan was much lower than today...
SOOOOO the most responsible thing I ever did as a parent was have my tubes tied after my one and only child was born.
Yes, absolutely. It's our responsibility to do so. It's why I choose cloth diapers, organic foods and breastfeeding. It's why I try very hard to model patience, politeness and courtesy to my children. Society and the environment are a constant influence in everything I do, including parenting.
Absolutely. Our girls are with my husband and I for a comparitively short time, until they are grown women participating in the rest of society.
Our job and role as parents is to raise them to be responsible, respectful, and self sufficient women who will bring meaning and purpose to their own lives and the lives of others around them.
To raise them any other way would, I feel, be irresponsible.
I strive towards attachment parenting and gentle discipline in order to raise children that will grow into responsible, compassionate adults.
We choose to cloth diaper (though we're now using biodegradable disposables- gDiapers), breastfeed, homebirth, etc both for the benefits for ourselves but also the environmental impact.
I think it's important for parents to research and make educated choices!
So- my answer to your question is ABSOLUTELY!
Of course.
Our son is not due until March, but my husband and I have already discussed what values/issues/standards that we feel are important to impart to our child.
I think the greatest gift/skill you can give to any child is a love of learning. Children who are fascinated by the world and encouraged to learn about it are far more likely to respect others and the world in general.
The biggest issue for us has been that as atheists we want to find a way to allow our son to make his own decision about religion. I've always resented the fact that society attempted to force me to be religious and I want to avoid doing the opposite to my son. I want him to decide the place of religion in his life for himself.
I know that I am right about the existence of god, but I think it's an answer everyone needs to find for themselves. So we'll raise him on the principles of secular humanism, which I personally find to be the best philosophy for living.
Ahh... the old ';thumbs down for the atheist';... my old friend!
I tried to teach my kids to be good people. I taught them not to kill without a reason. I taught them to treat others as they would like to be treated (a concept not unique to the deeply religious.) I think I did a fair job. Nobody's perfect but I tried.
No.
Parenting choices are meant to be just that - choices we make for the benefit of our children, not the world at large.
The sociological and environmental effects of those decisions are secondary to the decision itself.
That said, certain decisions I make in my own life (recycle, conserve energy, etc.) set a good example for my children to follow.
Is it really ';sexist'; to suggest that someone be more actively involved in parenting?
And before you come back with ';Obama supporters are crying Racism so...';
Consider the amount of Racism that REALLY is USED AGAINST Obama...
There's tons of it... Fox News suggested ';assassinating Osama Obama';
A young veteran introduced McCain by saying ';You can keep your Tiger Woods... We have McCain!';
Ann Coulter flat out calls him the paternal welfare mammy...
And I've seen about 30 different Republicans on this very site claiming that he will ';enslave'; white people and demand reparations...Is it really ';sexist'; to suggest that someone be more actively involved in parenting?
As a mother... it certainly is not sexist.
I think the concern comes from surprise... most women want to stay home as much as possible with their baby. Yes of course, a woman may have to work... but its a necessity in most cases.
Palin is more than welcome to juggle her family including a newborn and the vice presidency of the United States, but its a rather strange decision.
What gets me most... so many Republicans are against moms working instead of staying home. Not just the Dr. Laura types, but in everyday life... they just about spit on a working mom and call them selfish.
My question is... what changed? Why is it terrible to be a working mother but when it comes to Palin its a smart and sassy choice.
Then the audacity of McCain to blame the media...
The whole situation is fishy if ya ask me.Is it really ';sexist'; to suggest that someone be more actively involved in parenting?
Two wrongs don't make a right. A woman doesn't have to sacrifice her career just because she is a mother. Obama has two children yet no one is questioning his parenting abilities or concerned that the girls will not have their father as much if he wins the election. Aren't dads equally important? It amazes me that the party that most women flee to and that claims it's for letting her 'do what she wants with her body' and for her liberation has members that spew this sexist comment. The DNC is hypocritical and so are the Democrats who use this as an attack against Palin. It shouldn't be an issue at all.
Considering the women who are democrats believe in what Palin is doing (before she was appointed) yes it is sexist. The Republican party has done what the Democrats wanted a female VP. So you list all these things, the FOX thing was your hearing or what you thought. It might have been the report of the 4 men wanting to do it, or saying they feel someone might try it due to the groups in the US. The veteran was stating things he felt not to reflect the whole party. Although I do not Obama, wants to raise taxes to sure move jobs outside the country, not stimulate growth. What your asking goes both ways and will continue. Everyone will not agree, you need to sort through to see if the story is true not sexist or racist
As a women I do not think its right to leave your 2day old special needs child with a nanny and head back to work. If shes so involved why did she even have a nanny? She claims to be an ';average American hockey mom'; I don't know any average mothers who can even afford a nanny to help raise all 5 kids. I do not think its sexist. The truth of the matter is one person can not do everything not matter how good of intentions they have, so either the kids get short changed or the country is both of which are not acceptable.
Considering Obama has young children, and no one has said that he should be spending more time with his family, yes. In fact, not once has it been said that a male candidate with young children not take the job because they need to spend time with their family. But when a woman does it, BAM needs to be at home with the kids.
*edit* Anyone who thumbs this down is an idiot trying to play partisan.
Neither candidates has played those cards, and neither can be held responsible of that there supporters do.
Remember, Christia compared Obama to Gahndi, and then McCain to Hilter.
If Michelle compares her self to a Kennedy again though, there wont be alot of happy people. LOL
No, it is not sexist at all, and idiot parent is one that has to be told to be more involved with their kids. And shame on those racist bastards who think this world belongs to them. News flash suckers, its not yours and it will never be. God knows who you are.
No. Unless is also sexist to question if a male politician is gay. I've never heard this asked of a female. It's complete bias and it's sexism against male candidates. No female candidate would be asked this.
It depends on how it's used. It seems that more often than not, though, it's used to basically tell a woman politician she needs to stay in the home and raise the children. In that case, it is sexist.
No, especially when a parent claims to be a conservative that preaches ';Just Say NO!'; instead of sex education and their unwed, teenage daughter gets pregnant.
I honestly believe you are overstating things considering obama's direct lineage is a white woman and a man from kenya. his roots do not come from american slavery times
We never ask a male politician that question, why would we ask a woman?
I think Palin should be ashamed of herself.
1. Her pregnant teenage daughter reflects her relationship with the kid. Obviously she didn't have any discussions with her mother about birth control or ovulation because.. Hello! Mom doesn't believe in that. Perhaps if her mom actually explained that an egg has to be fertilized, travel down the fallopian tube, implant into the uterus, and grow into a newborn, the kid may actually realize how much a miracle childbirth really is and that the child should respect the process a bit more.
2. That she was spoiled enough to have a baby at 44. After all the doctors saying what happens to risks after a mother reaches 35, she still gets knocked up only to have a deficient child. The odds of her having such a baby were sky high as a 44 yr. old.. I see that as selfish.
3. She wants women's rights to be blasted into the 18th century. Funny since her husband is a stay at home daddy. She's really preaching against what she's doing there.
4. All of the data is in and there is one thing in common with all third world countries. It is that the female is not educated and does not have the opportunity to better herself. What does Palin want to do with female status in America?
5. It's sexist until a Rep says, ';Wow she's one hot MILF!'; I'll vote for her with a great big woodie anyday!';
WTF?
Consider the amount of Racism that REALLY is USED AGAINST Obama...
There's tons of it... Fox News suggested ';assassinating Osama Obama';
A young veteran introduced McCain by saying ';You can keep your Tiger Woods... We have McCain!';
Ann Coulter flat out calls him the paternal welfare mammy...
And I've seen about 30 different Republicans on this very site claiming that he will ';enslave'; white people and demand reparations...Is it really ';sexist'; to suggest that someone be more actively involved in parenting?
As a mother... it certainly is not sexist.
I think the concern comes from surprise... most women want to stay home as much as possible with their baby. Yes of course, a woman may have to work... but its a necessity in most cases.
Palin is more than welcome to juggle her family including a newborn and the vice presidency of the United States, but its a rather strange decision.
What gets me most... so many Republicans are against moms working instead of staying home. Not just the Dr. Laura types, but in everyday life... they just about spit on a working mom and call them selfish.
My question is... what changed? Why is it terrible to be a working mother but when it comes to Palin its a smart and sassy choice.
Then the audacity of McCain to blame the media...
The whole situation is fishy if ya ask me.Is it really ';sexist'; to suggest that someone be more actively involved in parenting?
Two wrongs don't make a right. A woman doesn't have to sacrifice her career just because she is a mother. Obama has two children yet no one is questioning his parenting abilities or concerned that the girls will not have their father as much if he wins the election. Aren't dads equally important? It amazes me that the party that most women flee to and that claims it's for letting her 'do what she wants with her body' and for her liberation has members that spew this sexist comment. The DNC is hypocritical and so are the Democrats who use this as an attack against Palin. It shouldn't be an issue at all.
Considering the women who are democrats believe in what Palin is doing (before she was appointed) yes it is sexist. The Republican party has done what the Democrats wanted a female VP. So you list all these things, the FOX thing was your hearing or what you thought. It might have been the report of the 4 men wanting to do it, or saying they feel someone might try it due to the groups in the US. The veteran was stating things he felt not to reflect the whole party. Although I do not Obama, wants to raise taxes to sure move jobs outside the country, not stimulate growth. What your asking goes both ways and will continue. Everyone will not agree, you need to sort through to see if the story is true not sexist or racist
As a women I do not think its right to leave your 2day old special needs child with a nanny and head back to work. If shes so involved why did she even have a nanny? She claims to be an ';average American hockey mom'; I don't know any average mothers who can even afford a nanny to help raise all 5 kids. I do not think its sexist. The truth of the matter is one person can not do everything not matter how good of intentions they have, so either the kids get short changed or the country is both of which are not acceptable.
Considering Obama has young children, and no one has said that he should be spending more time with his family, yes. In fact, not once has it been said that a male candidate with young children not take the job because they need to spend time with their family. But when a woman does it, BAM needs to be at home with the kids.
*edit* Anyone who thumbs this down is an idiot trying to play partisan.
Neither candidates has played those cards, and neither can be held responsible of that there supporters do.
Remember, Christia compared Obama to Gahndi, and then McCain to Hilter.
If Michelle compares her self to a Kennedy again though, there wont be alot of happy people. LOL
No, it is not sexist at all, and idiot parent is one that has to be told to be more involved with their kids. And shame on those racist bastards who think this world belongs to them. News flash suckers, its not yours and it will never be. God knows who you are.
No. Unless is also sexist to question if a male politician is gay. I've never heard this asked of a female. It's complete bias and it's sexism against male candidates. No female candidate would be asked this.
It depends on how it's used. It seems that more often than not, though, it's used to basically tell a woman politician she needs to stay in the home and raise the children. In that case, it is sexist.
No, especially when a parent claims to be a conservative that preaches ';Just Say NO!'; instead of sex education and their unwed, teenage daughter gets pregnant.
I honestly believe you are overstating things considering obama's direct lineage is a white woman and a man from kenya. his roots do not come from american slavery times
We never ask a male politician that question, why would we ask a woman?
I think Palin should be ashamed of herself.
1. Her pregnant teenage daughter reflects her relationship with the kid. Obviously she didn't have any discussions with her mother about birth control or ovulation because.. Hello! Mom doesn't believe in that. Perhaps if her mom actually explained that an egg has to be fertilized, travel down the fallopian tube, implant into the uterus, and grow into a newborn, the kid may actually realize how much a miracle childbirth really is and that the child should respect the process a bit more.
2. That she was spoiled enough to have a baby at 44. After all the doctors saying what happens to risks after a mother reaches 35, she still gets knocked up only to have a deficient child. The odds of her having such a baby were sky high as a 44 yr. old.. I see that as selfish.
3. She wants women's rights to be blasted into the 18th century. Funny since her husband is a stay at home daddy. She's really preaching against what she's doing there.
4. All of the data is in and there is one thing in common with all third world countries. It is that the female is not educated and does not have the opportunity to better herself. What does Palin want to do with female status in America?
5. It's sexist until a Rep says, ';Wow she's one hot MILF!'; I'll vote for her with a great big woodie anyday!';
WTF?
Gender roles on single parenting? Do you think it effects the child living in a one parent household?
i'm doign a paper for my sociology class on gernder rolls effecting the lives of children in a single parent householdGender roles on single parenting? Do you think it effects the child living in a one parent household?
Yes, of course, a one parent household affects the children. My bf's daughter has become a very capable carpenter, something that likely would not have happened had she been living with her mother. I think boys also miss some of the cuddling that they would ordinarily get from their mother.Gender roles on single parenting? Do you think it effects the child living in a one parent household?
Yes it does!!!
I am a girl who was raised by a man.
I was never a ';girly girl'; and always thought more like a man. I'm naturally beautiful and don't fix my hair, makeup or have much of a fashion sense.
My father ran through girlfriends like they were water and cheated on all of them. Since that's what I saw growing up, that's what I did to guys when I got old enough. People either become the victim or the abuser, I became the abuser.
By not having a mother in the house, I was always more of a tomboy and grew up with a lot of male chauvanistic attitudes, which started out towards women, then switched to men as I got older and went through a couple of husbands.
I don't think a man has any business raising a child on his own, boy or girl. Women are made by nature to rear young and men are not. Single mothers do much better than single fathers, as a general rule.
I don't think it would effect the child. I know when I first had my 1st child and my husband worked out of state for his 1st 6 months of life it was hard. I have alot of respect for the single parents.
The only time I have seen anything first hand is with a few single mom's of boy's. I have seen a few that try to make the boy the ';man of the house'; per say...but to benifit them when they are lonely...which is wierd, and usually causes attatchment issues. It doesn't seem to be common though, so personally I'd say it's just a fluke thing that happened to be single mom's. I'm sure some married mom's do the same thing. Widows also have this happen if they don't re marry sometimes.
Other than that...I haven't really noticed a difference. They seem to have a close bond with their kids for the most part.
I was raised by lesbians.
If we met and hung out, you would never know it if I didn't tell you.
I'd say the only big difference between me and others is that I'm more open minded.
I lived with just my dad when parents got a divorce. Im still my normal, spoiled self...Sweet and caring- take the shirt off my back for you kind of girl.But i am a meanie when i get mad.... But I do say I love sports haha...
My husband on the other hand was raised by his mom only-
He is sweet,competitive, loving, and judgemental lol...
So hopefully ur child will have a mix of both of our great traits :)
good luck on your paper!
Try looking up some Dr. frued.
Here is a quote with some stats to consider---
Consider these sobering statistics from the Centers for Disease Control, Department of Justice, Department of Health and Human Services and the Bureau of the Census: Children who live apart from their fathers will account for 40 percent of incarcerated adults, 63 percent of teen suicides, 70 percent of juveniles in state-operated institutions, 71 percent of high-school dropouts, 75 percent of children in chemical-abuse centers, 80 percent of rapists, 85 percent of youths in prison, 85 percent of children who exhibit behavioral disorders, and 90 percent of homeless and runaway children.
end quote
So it is a problem even though many single parents do a wonderful job it is still a disadvantage over all.
Yes, of course, a one parent household affects the children. My bf's daughter has become a very capable carpenter, something that likely would not have happened had she been living with her mother. I think boys also miss some of the cuddling that they would ordinarily get from their mother.Gender roles on single parenting? Do you think it effects the child living in a one parent household?
Yes it does!!!
I am a girl who was raised by a man.
I was never a ';girly girl'; and always thought more like a man. I'm naturally beautiful and don't fix my hair, makeup or have much of a fashion sense.
My father ran through girlfriends like they were water and cheated on all of them. Since that's what I saw growing up, that's what I did to guys when I got old enough. People either become the victim or the abuser, I became the abuser.
By not having a mother in the house, I was always more of a tomboy and grew up with a lot of male chauvanistic attitudes, which started out towards women, then switched to men as I got older and went through a couple of husbands.
I don't think a man has any business raising a child on his own, boy or girl. Women are made by nature to rear young and men are not. Single mothers do much better than single fathers, as a general rule.
I don't think it would effect the child. I know when I first had my 1st child and my husband worked out of state for his 1st 6 months of life it was hard. I have alot of respect for the single parents.
The only time I have seen anything first hand is with a few single mom's of boy's. I have seen a few that try to make the boy the ';man of the house'; per say...but to benifit them when they are lonely...which is wierd, and usually causes attatchment issues. It doesn't seem to be common though, so personally I'd say it's just a fluke thing that happened to be single mom's. I'm sure some married mom's do the same thing. Widows also have this happen if they don't re marry sometimes.
Other than that...I haven't really noticed a difference. They seem to have a close bond with their kids for the most part.
I was raised by lesbians.
If we met and hung out, you would never know it if I didn't tell you.
I'd say the only big difference between me and others is that I'm more open minded.
I lived with just my dad when parents got a divorce. Im still my normal, spoiled self...Sweet and caring- take the shirt off my back for you kind of girl.But i am a meanie when i get mad.... But I do say I love sports haha...
My husband on the other hand was raised by his mom only-
He is sweet,competitive, loving, and judgemental lol...
So hopefully ur child will have a mix of both of our great traits :)
good luck on your paper!
Try looking up some Dr. frued.
Here is a quote with some stats to consider---
Consider these sobering statistics from the Centers for Disease Control, Department of Justice, Department of Health and Human Services and the Bureau of the Census: Children who live apart from their fathers will account for 40 percent of incarcerated adults, 63 percent of teen suicides, 70 percent of juveniles in state-operated institutions, 71 percent of high-school dropouts, 75 percent of children in chemical-abuse centers, 80 percent of rapists, 85 percent of youths in prison, 85 percent of children who exhibit behavioral disorders, and 90 percent of homeless and runaway children.
end quote
So it is a problem even though many single parents do a wonderful job it is still a disadvantage over all.
Do you think genetics is a root cause of mental illness? What about parenting?
I believe there are many different causes of mental illness, including genetics and parenting.Do you think genetics is a root cause of mental illness? What about parenting?
well i believe god makes these kind of people for very good reasons, genetics has something to do With it but god is the maker.Do you think genetics is a root cause of mental illness? What about parenting?
Actually both play a role in mental illness. There is no definite answer but plenty of theories. Those with the humanistic perspective would say it has to do with parenting and conditional love while the psychoanalytical side would say it is the unconscious and lack of understanding our thoughts and feeling. Mental illness remains a mystery, even with all the advancements taking place and the creation of the DSM, there are still many unanswered question.
Genetics has a lot to do with it. Some people are practically tortured as children and grow up to do great things. Others become schizophrenic and institutionalized for most of their adult lives.
I think intelligence also has something to do with how well one handles an abnormally stressful childhood, but there are mentally ill people who are highly intelligent, so it's not a black and white issue.
A study done on identical twins separated at birth, indicated that about 80% of their intelligences were genetic %26amp; 20% environmental. So, it would seem if there's a genetic predisposition, there'd be an 80% chance.
I think its both genes and environment.
You could have the genes for a mental illness, but be brought up in a lovely supportive environment, Or not have the genes , and still develop it!
Identical twins who develop from the same egg, are more likely to both develop schizophrenia (higher concordance) than non identical twins.
As Identical twins share more genes, this shows that genetics are important. However, Identical twins share the same genes so they should both develop schizophrenia or both not, but there is only a 40% concordance, so only 40% of identical twins will both develop schizophrenia, which shows there is more to it than genes,and raises the question what stops the other 60% from developing it to.
Although if they are twins it is likely they were brought up in the same environment, and also its worth bearing in mind that identical twins share the same blood in the womb.
And another theory states that children who received mixed emotional messages from their parents run a risk of developing schizophrenia.
And children who were predisposed to schizophrenia ,who were brought up in a caring supportive family environment could avoid developing it. So yes ,parenting can have an effect. But as can any part of an individuals environment, and interactions with anyone within the environment.
Hope this helps .estee lauder
well i believe god makes these kind of people for very good reasons, genetics has something to do With it but god is the maker.Do you think genetics is a root cause of mental illness? What about parenting?
Actually both play a role in mental illness. There is no definite answer but plenty of theories. Those with the humanistic perspective would say it has to do with parenting and conditional love while the psychoanalytical side would say it is the unconscious and lack of understanding our thoughts and feeling. Mental illness remains a mystery, even with all the advancements taking place and the creation of the DSM, there are still many unanswered question.
Genetics has a lot to do with it. Some people are practically tortured as children and grow up to do great things. Others become schizophrenic and institutionalized for most of their adult lives.
I think intelligence also has something to do with how well one handles an abnormally stressful childhood, but there are mentally ill people who are highly intelligent, so it's not a black and white issue.
A study done on identical twins separated at birth, indicated that about 80% of their intelligences were genetic %26amp; 20% environmental. So, it would seem if there's a genetic predisposition, there'd be an 80% chance.
I think its both genes and environment.
You could have the genes for a mental illness, but be brought up in a lovely supportive environment, Or not have the genes , and still develop it!
Identical twins who develop from the same egg, are more likely to both develop schizophrenia (higher concordance) than non identical twins.
As Identical twins share more genes, this shows that genetics are important. However, Identical twins share the same genes so they should both develop schizophrenia or both not, but there is only a 40% concordance, so only 40% of identical twins will both develop schizophrenia, which shows there is more to it than genes,and raises the question what stops the other 60% from developing it to.
Although if they are twins it is likely they were brought up in the same environment, and also its worth bearing in mind that identical twins share the same blood in the womb.
And another theory states that children who received mixed emotional messages from their parents run a risk of developing schizophrenia.
And children who were predisposed to schizophrenia ,who were brought up in a caring supportive family environment could avoid developing it. So yes ,parenting can have an effect. But as can any part of an individuals environment, and interactions with anyone within the environment.
Hope this helps .
Will trained parenting skills for ages 3-18 years of age reduce the statistics of abused & neglected children?
Children begin playing with dolls at a young age..as toddlers. Today the parenting classes are limited to the parents who are all ready facing crimes for abuse and/or neglect charges to their children.
Nurses, as well as educated professionals will be the teachers; the method is by playing with the dolls as toddlers on up to college students on a much more professional level.
Please let me know what you think, and thank you for you opinion and thoughts on the matter.Will trained parenting skills for ages 3-18 years of age reduce the statistics of abused %26amp; neglected children?
I think it could make some difference. It would be just one of many interventions that could make a difference, but no one intervention on its own is the answer. The people who abuse children do so for all kinds of reasons, and this method may eliminate the abuse of those who just don't know any better, a group that probably constitutes a small proportion of abusers. It may not eliminate the abuse of those who are angry for various reasons, who are mentally challenged themselves, who are sociopaths or psychopaths, who are pedophiles, etc. Most people understand the reasons to not abuse children.Will trained parenting skills for ages 3-18 years of age reduce the statistics of abused %26amp; neglected children?
Knowledge is power!
It has been proven that the more a parent knows the better they will be.
In 1990 I read about a new program in California. This program paired pregnant teens with women that were already moms. These moms were their mentors. Many of these girls were kicked out of home because they were pregnant and/or had poor role models.
The mentors helped the girls make doctors appointments, helped them keep them, and to apply for WIC or other services.
The mentors also helped explain the changes their bodies were going through,How the baby was growing.
After the babies were born if the teen needed a break they would help with that too. They taught the girls how to feed, change, clothe, and play with their babies.
They were also there when they needed someone to talk to, even if it was the middle of the night.
During the initial period of this program (I believe it was 1 to 2 years), Reports of Child abuse and neglect were at an all time low.
This is proof that being taught parenting skills makes a difference!
I think it would make a difference. It should be a regular school subject for both boys %26amp; girls, giving increasing knowledge as the child progresses through school amd covering all aspects of parenting and home making as well as budgeting.
However it's a proven fact that adults who were abused as children are most likely to abuse their children. Not all of them do. So abused children would need special help.
Also you need to take into account the variations in human nature. Some people are more aggressive and so would also need extra help.
Depends on the point of view. Sometimes they (the parents) don't mean to neglect the child. There may be a logical reason behind the case (ex. the parents can't afford new clothes often.) and it's not their fault. Now abuse on the other hand there is no reason to do it. IT'S JUST PLAIN WRONG.
I think that abuse is also an anger management problem.
parent skills may be good for those that truly seek to fine tune their skills.
I know for a fact that it won't help with those that have it in their mind to abuse, as I have lived through the hell of it with my ex husband. If anything, it might help them hide the fact that they are abusers!
I'm a single mother with 2 children.
I think it would. In my experience SOME of the abuse and/or neglect that occurs is a result of unrealistic expectations of what a child should or shouldn't be doing. Like beating a 2 yr old for wetting thier pants or thinking that a 3 yr old can fix thier own breakfast.
I think that playing with dolls can teach nurturing behavior but even more important is that the children are nurtured. All the training in the world is irrelevant if children are not loved and parented..Children cannot learn to be decent human beings when they are planted in front of the tv and in my opinion it is really hard to learn lifeskills when you are in daycare for 9 hours a day with 25 other children when you should still be at home with mom or dad.
Nurses, as well as educated professionals will be the teachers; the method is by playing with the dolls as toddlers on up to college students on a much more professional level.
Please let me know what you think, and thank you for you opinion and thoughts on the matter.Will trained parenting skills for ages 3-18 years of age reduce the statistics of abused %26amp; neglected children?
I think it could make some difference. It would be just one of many interventions that could make a difference, but no one intervention on its own is the answer. The people who abuse children do so for all kinds of reasons, and this method may eliminate the abuse of those who just don't know any better, a group that probably constitutes a small proportion of abusers. It may not eliminate the abuse of those who are angry for various reasons, who are mentally challenged themselves, who are sociopaths or psychopaths, who are pedophiles, etc. Most people understand the reasons to not abuse children.Will trained parenting skills for ages 3-18 years of age reduce the statistics of abused %26amp; neglected children?
Knowledge is power!
It has been proven that the more a parent knows the better they will be.
In 1990 I read about a new program in California. This program paired pregnant teens with women that were already moms. These moms were their mentors. Many of these girls were kicked out of home because they were pregnant and/or had poor role models.
The mentors helped the girls make doctors appointments, helped them keep them, and to apply for WIC or other services.
The mentors also helped explain the changes their bodies were going through,How the baby was growing.
After the babies were born if the teen needed a break they would help with that too. They taught the girls how to feed, change, clothe, and play with their babies.
They were also there when they needed someone to talk to, even if it was the middle of the night.
During the initial period of this program (I believe it was 1 to 2 years), Reports of Child abuse and neglect were at an all time low.
This is proof that being taught parenting skills makes a difference!
I think it would make a difference. It should be a regular school subject for both boys %26amp; girls, giving increasing knowledge as the child progresses through school amd covering all aspects of parenting and home making as well as budgeting.
However it's a proven fact that adults who were abused as children are most likely to abuse their children. Not all of them do. So abused children would need special help.
Also you need to take into account the variations in human nature. Some people are more aggressive and so would also need extra help.
Depends on the point of view. Sometimes they (the parents) don't mean to neglect the child. There may be a logical reason behind the case (ex. the parents can't afford new clothes often.) and it's not their fault. Now abuse on the other hand there is no reason to do it. IT'S JUST PLAIN WRONG.
I think that abuse is also an anger management problem.
parent skills may be good for those that truly seek to fine tune their skills.
I know for a fact that it won't help with those that have it in their mind to abuse, as I have lived through the hell of it with my ex husband. If anything, it might help them hide the fact that they are abusers!
I'm a single mother with 2 children.
I think it would. In my experience SOME of the abuse and/or neglect that occurs is a result of unrealistic expectations of what a child should or shouldn't be doing. Like beating a 2 yr old for wetting thier pants or thinking that a 3 yr old can fix thier own breakfast.
I think that playing with dolls can teach nurturing behavior but even more important is that the children are nurtured. All the training in the world is irrelevant if children are not loved and parented..Children cannot learn to be decent human beings when they are planted in front of the tv and in my opinion it is really hard to learn lifeskills when you are in daycare for 9 hours a day with 25 other children when you should still be at home with mom or dad.
Do you think this is bad Parenting?
My sisters best friends (for privacy sake im going to use fake names)
lets just say Tom and Hallie
Hallie and Tom live in a 3 bed room apartment
they have three kids
Justin
Nolan
and
Stassi
(fake names again ha)
and they are 23 years old
(the parents)
do you think thats bad
or good since they can raise them and since the children are so sweet?Do you think this is bad Parenting?
They dont sound like bad parents from what you have listed here. Do they treat the children with respect? Take care of their basic needs? Nurture them? Love them?Do you think this is bad Parenting?
Good parenting isn't about where you live, or how old you are, or how much money you make, or if there's a ring on your finger. It's about working damn hard to teach your children how to become responsible, caring, independent human beings. It's about making sure they have enough to eat and a roof over their heads, sure, but it's also about making sure they know they're loved, and they're safe from harm.
They are young but as long as they are loving, caring, mature, and responsible it isn't bad at all. They sound like they're doing a great job.
How old are their kids anyway? I mean, they could have started when they were 20, especially if they had twins. Or they could've started when they're 16. I think people should learn to wait longer but as long as they're good parents and have the means to take care of children that's all that matters.
are they safe? are they loved? do they have food to eat,,,clothing to wear? there is more to raising children than a big house and age on a calender. i was 23 when i gave birth to TWINS while living at my moms house with my husband. (he was recently out of the military and we moved in with my parents till we found a place)
you can raise happy healthy normal kids no matter of space or money. as long as the kids are safe, are loved, and have food and clothing,,,try not to pass judgement.
Age doesn't matter. My parents had me when they were about 14/15 and aren't married after 13 years. They are getting married next month. I know parent's who hate each other and have been together for 20 years. As long as they love each other and their kids, marriage won't change a thing. Marriage doesn't reflect on your age or your parenting techniques.
I do not know ';Tom and Hallie'; but at 23 my parents were drug addicts who cared nothing for me. It was the 80's and ';accepted'; silly me for wanting to have parents who actually wanted me around.
My parents were far too immature to be raising children at 23.
Being young does not make anyone a bad parent. Every child should be so lucky to be loved and disciplined. Tell them not to worry what others think.
I dont understand what you are asking is bad, it sound to me that they are raising there children together, and the kids are good kids
I dont think theres anything bad with that, since they have children they've obviously talked about how to raise the children right? I think its great !
I don't know these people, so who am I judge? It's not like they're all over the news for abandoning or killing their children like some parents
How would this possibly be bad parenting
thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard that IS NOT bad parenting
Only they would know if they were bad parents.
as long as their kids get the attention they need, nothing else should matter
age nor gender make you a good parent.... neither do expierience
lets just say Tom and Hallie
Hallie and Tom live in a 3 bed room apartment
they have three kids
Justin
Nolan
and
Stassi
(fake names again ha)
and they are 23 years old
(the parents)
do you think thats bad
or good since they can raise them and since the children are so sweet?Do you think this is bad Parenting?
They dont sound like bad parents from what you have listed here. Do they treat the children with respect? Take care of their basic needs? Nurture them? Love them?Do you think this is bad Parenting?
Good parenting isn't about where you live, or how old you are, or how much money you make, or if there's a ring on your finger. It's about working damn hard to teach your children how to become responsible, caring, independent human beings. It's about making sure they have enough to eat and a roof over their heads, sure, but it's also about making sure they know they're loved, and they're safe from harm.
They are young but as long as they are loving, caring, mature, and responsible it isn't bad at all. They sound like they're doing a great job.
How old are their kids anyway? I mean, they could have started when they were 20, especially if they had twins. Or they could've started when they're 16. I think people should learn to wait longer but as long as they're good parents and have the means to take care of children that's all that matters.
are they safe? are they loved? do they have food to eat,,,clothing to wear? there is more to raising children than a big house and age on a calender. i was 23 when i gave birth to TWINS while living at my moms house with my husband. (he was recently out of the military and we moved in with my parents till we found a place)
you can raise happy healthy normal kids no matter of space or money. as long as the kids are safe, are loved, and have food and clothing,,,try not to pass judgement.
Age doesn't matter. My parents had me when they were about 14/15 and aren't married after 13 years. They are getting married next month. I know parent's who hate each other and have been together for 20 years. As long as they love each other and their kids, marriage won't change a thing. Marriage doesn't reflect on your age or your parenting techniques.
I do not know ';Tom and Hallie'; but at 23 my parents were drug addicts who cared nothing for me. It was the 80's and ';accepted'; silly me for wanting to have parents who actually wanted me around.
My parents were far too immature to be raising children at 23.
Being young does not make anyone a bad parent. Every child should be so lucky to be loved and disciplined. Tell them not to worry what others think.
I dont understand what you are asking is bad, it sound to me that they are raising there children together, and the kids are good kids
I dont think theres anything bad with that, since they have children they've obviously talked about how to raise the children right? I think its great !
I don't know these people, so who am I judge? It's not like they're all over the news for abandoning or killing their children like some parents
How would this possibly be bad parenting
thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard that IS NOT bad parenting
Only they would know if they were bad parents.
as long as their kids get the attention they need, nothing else should matter
age nor gender make you a good parent.... neither do expierience
Finding it extremely difficult to deal with teenage parenting?
im stressed, my sister and her friend are being total ars3holes, my mum is pissin me off, i have a 6 week old baby and school to deal with.. any help at all? Finding it extremely difficult to deal with teenage parenting?
You should listen to music for a few then start on you books while listening to it still. forget everyone in the house (not your baby tho cos she might cry for something) then when you're all done, take a nice hot bath or shower and take some type of food that might be around and eat a little. not much tho. try to even play dress up with you self to for get everything or beat up a pill. You'll feel better. :]
Finding it extremely difficult to deal with teenage parenting?
u need to relax a little get away from the house for a little bit. Tell your sister and her friend to screw it and get away from them, I mean they shouldnt be bugging you especially when they know that you are stressed. Maybe talk to your mom about whatever shes doing to bug you and maybe go somewhere that you think is a good relaxing place and just get away for a little bit maybe one day on the weekend or depending on your age maybe just a weekend you can ask your mom if she can take care of the baby for a little bit so you can have some time to yourself.
It sounds like you need to just take a moment to yourself. Maybe take a nice bath if the baby is asleep or just take a moment to relax yourself. I am a 15 year old mom of a 1.5 week old baby (in no way bragging, it is not at all glamorous) and sometimes I just have to go lie down or take a nice long bath.
Well girl you gotta be strong and personally i dont think you should write ';i am not a slag i got raped'; it is nobody's business and i think it's too personal but that's your choice.
anyways, i know you got a child but maybe if you have the resources you should do school online...maybe mckenna or something. i dont know....but find a daycare and try to have some time so you can do something you like.
Well, what do you want help with? We can't help you. You need to find practical help where you live. What do you want from us? The only thing i can suggest is going and taking a nice long bath and relaxing, now your baby is sleeping. Paint your nails too if you can, just do something to make yourself feel nice. See if that makes you feel better. I think you should talk to your mum about how you feel too. Or if you can't talk to her, a close relative. Judging by your other question (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;… i think you need some proper help, it will help you cope better. You need someone to talk to and have support.
Good luck.
Why don't you try getting out of the house. The mall is a really great place for mom's with small babies. You could take your books there and walk around with the baby till he/she is asleep and then find a quiet spot to study or do homework.
maybe let your mom deal with her for a while.i know it might be hard but she raised you,and really knows best.maybe tomorrow stay in your pajamas all day and sleep!
like the fact that u got raped would be just up on here..staright...yeah right
and im obama
You should listen to music for a few then start on you books while listening to it still. forget everyone in the house (not your baby tho cos she might cry for something) then when you're all done, take a nice hot bath or shower and take some type of food that might be around and eat a little. not much tho. try to even play dress up with you self to for get everything or beat up a pill. You'll feel better. :]
Finding it extremely difficult to deal with teenage parenting?
u need to relax a little get away from the house for a little bit. Tell your sister and her friend to screw it and get away from them, I mean they shouldnt be bugging you especially when they know that you are stressed. Maybe talk to your mom about whatever shes doing to bug you and maybe go somewhere that you think is a good relaxing place and just get away for a little bit maybe one day on the weekend or depending on your age maybe just a weekend you can ask your mom if she can take care of the baby for a little bit so you can have some time to yourself.
It sounds like you need to just take a moment to yourself. Maybe take a nice bath if the baby is asleep or just take a moment to relax yourself. I am a 15 year old mom of a 1.5 week old baby (in no way bragging, it is not at all glamorous) and sometimes I just have to go lie down or take a nice long bath.
Well girl you gotta be strong and personally i dont think you should write ';i am not a slag i got raped'; it is nobody's business and i think it's too personal but that's your choice.
anyways, i know you got a child but maybe if you have the resources you should do school online...maybe mckenna or something. i dont know....but find a daycare and try to have some time so you can do something you like.
Well, what do you want help with? We can't help you. You need to find practical help where you live. What do you want from us? The only thing i can suggest is going and taking a nice long bath and relaxing, now your baby is sleeping. Paint your nails too if you can, just do something to make yourself feel nice. See if that makes you feel better. I think you should talk to your mum about how you feel too. Or if you can't talk to her, a close relative. Judging by your other question (http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;… i think you need some proper help, it will help you cope better. You need someone to talk to and have support.
Good luck.
Why don't you try getting out of the house. The mall is a really great place for mom's with small babies. You could take your books there and walk around with the baby till he/she is asleep and then find a quiet spot to study or do homework.
maybe let your mom deal with her for a while.i know it might be hard but she raised you,and really knows best.maybe tomorrow stay in your pajamas all day and sleep!
like the fact that u got raped would be just up on here..staright...yeah right
and im obama
Why do people who don't have kids feel free to give out parenting advice?
Like my boss for example. He is 32, has never been married, and has no children. He isalways taking it upon himself to give out parenting advice. Half the time he makes it pretty obvious that he has no children, cause his advice sucks. Our office went to a Cancer Relay for Life and they were auctioning cakes off. My co-worker had her 3 yr old son there and he couldn't see the cakes they were showing. She said that he kept saying ';Moma I can't see. I want to see the cakes too.'; She said that our boss turned to her and had the nerve to say ';You want me to take him out of here and bust his butt?'; He has been around my daughter like 4 times maybe, and says that she is so spoiled that when she grows up, he won't be surprised to see her at the top of a clock tower with a rifle shooting at people(Don't ask me what that is suppose to mean!). I get so tired of hearing his comments. He doesn't even have kids. Why do people like this give out parenting advice?Why do people who don't have kids feel free to give out parenting advice?
oh my gosh, first thing.... i would find another job. i do not put up with other people telling me how to raise my child. the only time i accept parenting advice, is when I ASK FOR IT.
Nothing annoys me more than some know it all who has the nerve not only to tell me how to be a good mom, but also to tell me what i do is wrong! i had a friend who made the mistake of telling me it was my fault that my son was underdeveloped because i paid too much attention to him (when in fact he is autistic. )
honey, i feel for you. if you don't have the option of leaving your job, i suggest you either tune him out completely, or tell him to mind his own personal affairs. or better yet ask him since he's SUCH a good parental figure, why doesn't HE have any kids?
best of luckWhy do people who don't have kids feel free to give out parenting advice?
to some people who dont already have kids want kids tremendosly thats what they live for times like this ,it could also be jealousy
I think this guy is just a jerk plain and simple, and probably would still be a jerk even if he did have kids. I only have a dog, no kids, but I still think I am able to give some good advice at times on here. Even though I'm not a parent, I still have some good education, life experiences, etc. that perhaps one parent doesn't have, and I could help them out. But I know what you mean, some people never have anything good/nice to say, and they should just keep quiet!
Regarding the cake incident:
I wasn't there, but I'll bet I know exactly what happened: the kid was saying something like, ';Mommy, I can't see. I wanna see. Mommy, mommy, mommy, I wanna see, too. Mommy, I can't see. Mommy, I can't see. Mommy, mommy, mommy, I wanna see. Mommy. Mommy. MOMMY. I wanna see, too! Mommy! MOMMY! I wanna see, I wanna see. I wanna see the cakes. I wanna see the CAKES! Mommy!...'; until everyone within earshot was ready to scream.
How do I know this...? Because I've witnessed it about a hundred times. Mothers are deaf to the ear-splitting racket their little darlings make. The rest of us aren't.
its quite obvious people with kids havent a clue about parenting
so advice from people without kids has to be an improvement
He sounds like a real jerk and that probably has nothing to do with his not having kids. The next time he makes remarks like that, report him to his supervisor. He needs to be stopped.
Seems like those who have the least experence with something, always seem to think they know the most about it. I have met ppl like that before also. They know nothing of a childs curious mind. It also depends on how they were raised as well. They only know the parenting skills of their parents. Or lack there of sometimes is the case.
Yikes, he is rude...no wonder he is not married and has no kids!
Those who can't, teach. Lol. Sometimes tho it takes the advice from someone on the outside looking in, ya know.
I totally agree... BUT unfortunately it is called IGNORANCE!!!! and you know what, i am just as guilty....and i bet if you think long and hard you were once too!!! Man i can not count how many times i said ';who lets their kids do that...my kids will never be like that...'; and you know what, the day i gave birth to my first son i learned to keep my mouth shut.... I think your boss is a totaly dick for saying those things...BUT he will get his...when he has kids!!!! they will be terrors!!! and he will feel like a fool for saying those things
Because a lot of times a lot of parenting just boils down to common sense, and even people without children have common sense. Although on here I've noticed a lot of peopel don't have much in the way of common sense.
I would tell him to mind his own business, boss or not!
no matter how it seems. he grew up, raised by a parent. therefore, can give advice based on passed experiences. some give advice because they see the flaws that we tend to miss or not see. be open minded no matter how much it sucks to here others telling you what you should and shouldn't do. they are just words with good intentions.
oh my gosh, first thing.... i would find another job. i do not put up with other people telling me how to raise my child. the only time i accept parenting advice, is when I ASK FOR IT.
Nothing annoys me more than some know it all who has the nerve not only to tell me how to be a good mom, but also to tell me what i do is wrong! i had a friend who made the mistake of telling me it was my fault that my son was underdeveloped because i paid too much attention to him (when in fact he is autistic. )
honey, i feel for you. if you don't have the option of leaving your job, i suggest you either tune him out completely, or tell him to mind his own personal affairs. or better yet ask him since he's SUCH a good parental figure, why doesn't HE have any kids?
best of luckWhy do people who don't have kids feel free to give out parenting advice?
to some people who dont already have kids want kids tremendosly thats what they live for times like this ,it could also be jealousy
I think this guy is just a jerk plain and simple, and probably would still be a jerk even if he did have kids. I only have a dog, no kids, but I still think I am able to give some good advice at times on here. Even though I'm not a parent, I still have some good education, life experiences, etc. that perhaps one parent doesn't have, and I could help them out. But I know what you mean, some people never have anything good/nice to say, and they should just keep quiet!
Regarding the cake incident:
I wasn't there, but I'll bet I know exactly what happened: the kid was saying something like, ';Mommy, I can't see. I wanna see. Mommy, mommy, mommy, I wanna see, too. Mommy, I can't see. Mommy, I can't see. Mommy, mommy, mommy, I wanna see. Mommy. Mommy. MOMMY. I wanna see, too! Mommy! MOMMY! I wanna see, I wanna see. I wanna see the cakes. I wanna see the CAKES! Mommy!...'; until everyone within earshot was ready to scream.
How do I know this...? Because I've witnessed it about a hundred times. Mothers are deaf to the ear-splitting racket their little darlings make. The rest of us aren't.
its quite obvious people with kids havent a clue about parenting
so advice from people without kids has to be an improvement
He sounds like a real jerk and that probably has nothing to do with his not having kids. The next time he makes remarks like that, report him to his supervisor. He needs to be stopped.
Seems like those who have the least experence with something, always seem to think they know the most about it. I have met ppl like that before also. They know nothing of a childs curious mind. It also depends on how they were raised as well. They only know the parenting skills of their parents. Or lack there of sometimes is the case.
Yikes, he is rude...no wonder he is not married and has no kids!
Those who can't, teach. Lol. Sometimes tho it takes the advice from someone on the outside looking in, ya know.
I totally agree... BUT unfortunately it is called IGNORANCE!!!! and you know what, i am just as guilty....and i bet if you think long and hard you were once too!!! Man i can not count how many times i said ';who lets their kids do that...my kids will never be like that...'; and you know what, the day i gave birth to my first son i learned to keep my mouth shut.... I think your boss is a totaly dick for saying those things...BUT he will get his...when he has kids!!!! they will be terrors!!! and he will feel like a fool for saying those things
Because a lot of times a lot of parenting just boils down to common sense, and even people without children have common sense. Although on here I've noticed a lot of peopel don't have much in the way of common sense.
I would tell him to mind his own business, boss or not!
no matter how it seems. he grew up, raised by a parent. therefore, can give advice based on passed experiences. some give advice because they see the flaws that we tend to miss or not see. be open minded no matter how much it sucks to here others telling you what you should and shouldn't do. they are just words with good intentions.
Can you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
section 8 aptsCan you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
Parenting probably wins the drama award IMO. But if you're looking for some really hateful and mean answers, I dare you to venture into the cat section and say ';My outdoor cat has been hurt, should I take him to the vet?'; and you will get every tea totalling granny, from every section of the universe, sending you hateful emails and bad karma, hahaCan you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
Yes, ';Politics';. I moonlight there and it's pretty bad.
Although there are no trolls who impersonate others, that I have only seen in ';Parenting';.
*come on, you would not be here without the drama.
*section 8 apartments- true, nice one :)
maybe not more, but it's up there. The religion section, and the gay,lesbian,bisexual one.
GLBT, religion, newborn and baby has a lot as does pregnancy. Marriage %26amp; Divorce has a fair amount.
Religion %26amp; Spirituality. It makes this section look tame. Trust me. Or um go put on a shield %26amp; wonder over there if u r brave enough
I have heard that weddings gets very controversial and people are constantly slagging each other off...
Lots of Bridezillas :D
Lol @ abcdef.
You would think politics, but no, we're #1.
i wouldn't know. i've never left the Parenting section. here is where it's at, yo! lol!
I don't know. The religion section can get pretty feisty.
Boot Camp - Female Bay - Did you know that once you've been there a while you all can get your period at the same time?
Religion and Spirituality, but the first answerer is great!
I would say politics and New Born Section.
NB%26amp;B, cats, dogs %26amp; cooking.
try relationships
I would say politics.
society and culture there are racist trolls all over that place
Thats a trick question ; )
lol, nope.
NEWBORN AND BABY
but honestly that place seems tame now ....
Parenting probably wins the drama award IMO. But if you're looking for some really hateful and mean answers, I dare you to venture into the cat section and say ';My outdoor cat has been hurt, should I take him to the vet?'; and you will get every tea totalling granny, from every section of the universe, sending you hateful emails and bad karma, hahaCan you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
Yes, ';Politics';. I moonlight there and it's pretty bad.
Although there are no trolls who impersonate others, that I have only seen in ';Parenting';.
*come on, you would not be here without the drama.
*section 8 apartments- true, nice one :)
maybe not more, but it's up there. The religion section, and the gay,lesbian,bisexual one.
GLBT, religion, newborn and baby has a lot as does pregnancy. Marriage %26amp; Divorce has a fair amount.
Religion %26amp; Spirituality. It makes this section look tame. Trust me. Or um go put on a shield %26amp; wonder over there if u r brave enough
I have heard that weddings gets very controversial and people are constantly slagging each other off...
Lots of Bridezillas :D
Lol @ abcdef.
You would think politics, but no, we're #1.
i wouldn't know. i've never left the Parenting section. here is where it's at, yo! lol!
I don't know. The religion section can get pretty feisty.
Boot Camp - Female Bay - Did you know that once you've been there a while you all can get your period at the same time?
Religion and Spirituality, but the first answerer is great!
I would say politics and New Born Section.
NB%26amp;B, cats, dogs %26amp; cooking.
try relationships
I would say politics.
society and culture there are racist trolls all over that place
Thats a trick question ; )
lol, nope.
NEWBORN AND BABY
but honestly that place seems tame now ....
Can you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
section 8 aptsCan you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
Parenting probably wins the drama award IMO. But if you're looking for some really hateful and mean answers, I dare you to venture into the cat section and say ';My outdoor cat has been hurt, should I take him to the vet?'; and you will get every tea totalling granny, from every section of the universe, sending you hateful emails and bad karma, hahaCan you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
Yes, ';Politics';. I moonlight there and it's pretty bad.
Although there are no trolls who impersonate others, that I have only seen in ';Parenting';.
*come on, you would not be here without the drama.
*section 8 apartments- true, nice one :)
maybe not more, but it's up there. The religion section, and the gay,lesbian,bisexual one.
GLBT, religion, newborn and baby has a lot as does pregnancy. Marriage %26amp; Divorce has a fair amount.
Religion %26amp; Spirituality. It makes this section look tame. Trust me. Or um go put on a shield %26amp; wonder over there if u r brave enough
I have heard that weddings gets very controversial and people are constantly slagging each other off...
Lots of Bridezillas :D
Lol @ abcdef.
You would think politics, but no, we're #1.
i wouldn't know. i've never left the Parenting section. here is where it's at, yo! lol!
I don't know. The religion section can get pretty feisty.
Boot Camp - Female Bay - Did you know that once you've been there a while you all can get your period at the same time?
Religion and Spirituality, but the first answerer is great!
I would say politics and New Born Section.
NB%26amp;B, cats, dogs %26amp; cooking.
try relationships
I would say politics.
society and culture there are racist trolls all over that place
Thats a trick question ; )
lol, nope.
NEWBORN AND BABY
but honestly that place seems tame now ....estee lauder
Parenting probably wins the drama award IMO. But if you're looking for some really hateful and mean answers, I dare you to venture into the cat section and say ';My outdoor cat has been hurt, should I take him to the vet?'; and you will get every tea totalling granny, from every section of the universe, sending you hateful emails and bad karma, hahaCan you name a section with more drama then Parenting?
Yes, ';Politics';. I moonlight there and it's pretty bad.
Although there are no trolls who impersonate others, that I have only seen in ';Parenting';.
*come on, you would not be here without the drama.
*section 8 apartments- true, nice one :)
maybe not more, but it's up there. The religion section, and the gay,lesbian,bisexual one.
GLBT, religion, newborn and baby has a lot as does pregnancy. Marriage %26amp; Divorce has a fair amount.
Religion %26amp; Spirituality. It makes this section look tame. Trust me. Or um go put on a shield %26amp; wonder over there if u r brave enough
I have heard that weddings gets very controversial and people are constantly slagging each other off...
Lots of Bridezillas :D
Lol @ abcdef.
You would think politics, but no, we're #1.
i wouldn't know. i've never left the Parenting section. here is where it's at, yo! lol!
I don't know. The religion section can get pretty feisty.
Boot Camp - Female Bay - Did you know that once you've been there a while you all can get your period at the same time?
Religion and Spirituality, but the first answerer is great!
I would say politics and New Born Section.
NB%26amp;B, cats, dogs %26amp; cooking.
try relationships
I would say politics.
society and culture there are racist trolls all over that place
Thats a trick question ; )
lol, nope.
NEWBORN AND BABY
but honestly that place seems tame now ....
Do you know an active and bustling baby/parenting forum which specifically dwells on raising an organic baby?
I thought all babies were organic. I've never seen a synthetic baby before.Do you know an active and bustling baby/parenting forum which specifically dwells on raising an organic baby?
For ';active'; and ';bustling';, try real life.Do you know an active and bustling baby/parenting forum which specifically dwells on raising an organic baby?
Yes, the forums mentioned are good. If you are also looking for quality organic onesies checkout www.egreent.com. Kudos to you for raising your baby chemical and pesticide free.
My favorite forum site is ivillage.com. Try them and you'll be hooked.
an organic baby? It's not a carrot for god sakes. Are you healthy? Did your parents raise you ';organic';
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/ has a very active forum
babyfit.com has a group for it
For ';active'; and ';bustling';, try real life.Do you know an active and bustling baby/parenting forum which specifically dwells on raising an organic baby?
Yes, the forums mentioned are good. If you are also looking for quality organic onesies checkout www.egreent.com. Kudos to you for raising your baby chemical and pesticide free.
My favorite forum site is ivillage.com. Try them and you'll be hooked.
an organic baby? It's not a carrot for god sakes. Are you healthy? Did your parents raise you ';organic';
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/ has a very active forum
babyfit.com has a group for it
What goes wrong in parenting that kids grow up disrespectful?
I think they didn't establish their athority with their children. Children need to know very early who is the child and who is the adult and who makes the rules. Never ever negotiate with a child because then they learn that everything is negotiable and they become that kid that argues with everyone, even adults. Also, children test their limits with their parents. If a child does something inappropriate or says something disrespectful and the parent doesn't correct it sternly and immediately, they will grow up with a brat. I don't think there is any worse trait for a child to have than being disrespectful especially to their parents- I guess it is just the way I was raised.What goes wrong in parenting that kids grow up disrespectful?
Parents don't teach their kids the reasons why others deserve respect just as they do. A good way to teach this is for the parent to treat others with respect (including the child and themselves), and to let the child know that they expect them to treat others with respect as well.What goes wrong in parenting that kids grow up disrespectful?
I wonder why you think parenting is the reason some kids don't respect others as they should? Let's not forget personal responsibility. I guess this depends on the age of the kid you are talking about too. A little one, say under age 6 should be under the control of his/her parents, but once that child takes off for school a whole host of other influences can cause this lack of respect you are asking about. Some respect issues are also just a side light of that child's personality. Some seeming disrespect can also be on the part of the one feeling disrespected. I have made a decision to never feel disrespected by anyone. Just because we think our feeling have been hurt doesn't mean the person doing the ';hurting'; meant to hurt. Maybe it was just the wrong word at the right time. Keep a positive attitude and the amount of disrespect you feel and see in life decreases immensely.
Because when the child learns the bad behavior, the parent doesn't correct it.
Both parents are more focused on their 'career' than raising children, therefore, the children are negelected and have to fend for themselves.
Or, the parents do NOT know how to raise children.
Or, the custodial parent is living on welfare and the social workers are telling them what to do and what not to do - as in discipline.
Or, children do live with parents and the parents are disrespectful and teach the same to their children.
Because parents don't discipline their children and teach them to BE respectful. That's why!
I think for some kids it begins in bad parenting, but definately not all. Some parents try to be their friend versus setting rules and limits. But sometimes a parent can do all they can do and things still go this way. Some children have to push the limits for everything and you can't feel guilty about this.
Just be firm, and demand respect and hopefully they will get it. Show them right from wrong by setting examples, and follow through when they dont follow rules or are disrespectable.. It is a challenging task for some, believe me I know, but keep setting the rules and making them follow through and you will get through it....
Parents don't require their kids to respect them, or the parents don't show respect towards the other parent and the kids see this and emulate it. Parents are even sometimes guilty of not respecting their children and this could lead to disrespectful behaviors in children.
i think the parent gives up on their child. they may not try hard enough??
Apples don't fall far from trees. Kids learn by example.
1. Teach by example. respect them, respect the other parent aned strangers. Dont' just show them though. You have to point out what your'e doing and why each time.
2. Kids that are disrespectful are usually unhappy. Find the source.
The parents allow it to happen and get that bad. They wanted to be a b.f.f. instead of a parent. They didn't want to discipline their children.
Not enough or no disciplinary actions at all, lack of communication skills, failure to correct and punish when needed, giving in to the child's every whim, not setting boundaries or rules, need I go on?
Basically the parents allow the child(ren) to run the roost and act as a friend to their child rather than a parent.
parents don't teach their children to respect them..
They don't see the parents respecting each other
they put down the children
maybe not enough discipline lack of attention at home.
Not enought discipline and not enough follow through. And parents allowing bad behavior to continue. I also have this notion that as our world gets busier and busier parents can't be bothered to take the time it needs to correct a disrespectful child. And then kids see their friends being disrespectful so they think it ok or even cool say a cycle begins.
I believe that parents are to caught up into being ';liked'; by their children. My partner raised his son by himself and he did this for so long. When I stepped in it was hard for me because I grew up very strict with discipline (I'm thankful for it). Imagine my stepson changed his report card grade in 5th grade and the same weeknd was watching TV and playing Playstation. Now that I am around there are clear consequences. I tell my son: Evertime you choose the behavior, you choose the consequence. Now when he lies, fails tests, has bad grades, we get calls from school, or catch him doing inappropriate things there is a punishment. I don't get why parents can't understand loving your child does not mean getting his/her approval. Parenting can be an ugly job at times but it must be done. You have an inner compass that leads you. Sometimes you have to be lenient or permissible other times you must ruel with an iron fist but still be loving. It's about balance. Parenting is hard but it is not a popularity contest. This is not highschool where you must be voted prom king/queen.
Callahan is right on It cannot be more true
The parents let them get away with it. They want to be friends instead of parents. They think they're little angels are perfect and never need to be disciplined. It's terrible how disrespectful kids are now. When I was a kid, I would never dream of talking back to any adult.
Parents don't teach their kids the reasons why others deserve respect just as they do. A good way to teach this is for the parent to treat others with respect (including the child and themselves), and to let the child know that they expect them to treat others with respect as well.What goes wrong in parenting that kids grow up disrespectful?
I wonder why you think parenting is the reason some kids don't respect others as they should? Let's not forget personal responsibility. I guess this depends on the age of the kid you are talking about too. A little one, say under age 6 should be under the control of his/her parents, but once that child takes off for school a whole host of other influences can cause this lack of respect you are asking about. Some respect issues are also just a side light of that child's personality. Some seeming disrespect can also be on the part of the one feeling disrespected. I have made a decision to never feel disrespected by anyone. Just because we think our feeling have been hurt doesn't mean the person doing the ';hurting'; meant to hurt. Maybe it was just the wrong word at the right time. Keep a positive attitude and the amount of disrespect you feel and see in life decreases immensely.
Because when the child learns the bad behavior, the parent doesn't correct it.
Both parents are more focused on their 'career' than raising children, therefore, the children are negelected and have to fend for themselves.
Or, the parents do NOT know how to raise children.
Or, the custodial parent is living on welfare and the social workers are telling them what to do and what not to do - as in discipline.
Or, children do live with parents and the parents are disrespectful and teach the same to their children.
Because parents don't discipline their children and teach them to BE respectful. That's why!
I think for some kids it begins in bad parenting, but definately not all. Some parents try to be their friend versus setting rules and limits. But sometimes a parent can do all they can do and things still go this way. Some children have to push the limits for everything and you can't feel guilty about this.
Just be firm, and demand respect and hopefully they will get it. Show them right from wrong by setting examples, and follow through when they dont follow rules or are disrespectable.. It is a challenging task for some, believe me I know, but keep setting the rules and making them follow through and you will get through it....
Parents don't require their kids to respect them, or the parents don't show respect towards the other parent and the kids see this and emulate it. Parents are even sometimes guilty of not respecting their children and this could lead to disrespectful behaviors in children.
i think the parent gives up on their child. they may not try hard enough??
Apples don't fall far from trees. Kids learn by example.
1. Teach by example. respect them, respect the other parent aned strangers. Dont' just show them though. You have to point out what your'e doing and why each time.
2. Kids that are disrespectful are usually unhappy. Find the source.
The parents allow it to happen and get that bad. They wanted to be a b.f.f. instead of a parent. They didn't want to discipline their children.
Not enough or no disciplinary actions at all, lack of communication skills, failure to correct and punish when needed, giving in to the child's every whim, not setting boundaries or rules, need I go on?
Basically the parents allow the child(ren) to run the roost and act as a friend to their child rather than a parent.
parents don't teach their children to respect them..
They don't see the parents respecting each other
they put down the children
maybe not enough discipline lack of attention at home.
Not enought discipline and not enough follow through. And parents allowing bad behavior to continue. I also have this notion that as our world gets busier and busier parents can't be bothered to take the time it needs to correct a disrespectful child. And then kids see their friends being disrespectful so they think it ok or even cool say a cycle begins.
I believe that parents are to caught up into being ';liked'; by their children. My partner raised his son by himself and he did this for so long. When I stepped in it was hard for me because I grew up very strict with discipline (I'm thankful for it). Imagine my stepson changed his report card grade in 5th grade and the same weeknd was watching TV and playing Playstation. Now that I am around there are clear consequences. I tell my son: Evertime you choose the behavior, you choose the consequence. Now when he lies, fails tests, has bad grades, we get calls from school, or catch him doing inappropriate things there is a punishment. I don't get why parents can't understand loving your child does not mean getting his/her approval. Parenting can be an ugly job at times but it must be done. You have an inner compass that leads you. Sometimes you have to be lenient or permissible other times you must ruel with an iron fist but still be loving. It's about balance. Parenting is hard but it is not a popularity contest. This is not highschool where you must be voted prom king/queen.
Callahan is right on It cannot be more true
The parents let them get away with it. They want to be friends instead of parents. They think they're little angels are perfect and never need to be disciplined. It's terrible how disrespectful kids are now. When I was a kid, I would never dream of talking back to any adult.
Does anyone know of a good resource on foster parenting, especially preparing for the child's return home?
If you are fostering a child, usually you are doing this through a social services entity (governmental or outsourced non profit). They have social workers that can counsel you on the separation and the ';loss'; of this child. They're usually really good about providing training to not only address issues relating to the child you're fostering, but also about things that you deal with as the foster parent. This is a really tough situation; in your mind you know that the placement is temporary yet you grow attached. If you have health insurance, it's a good idea to check with the insurance company if visits to psychologists are covered. Lastly and importantly, surround yourself with supportive family and friends. And accept the fact that saying goodbye is part of what you signed up for; congratulate yourself for being there to make a difference to that child's life, and look forward to the next child you'll be helping.
How would YOU react to parenting advice from Kate McCann?
See Adams Q. And no I am not Adam before I get accused! lol
Personally I would take umbridge at advice on how to bring my 2 up, from her.How would YOU react to parenting advice from Kate McCann?
Hopefully her trial will prevent any chance of that ever happening.How would YOU react to parenting advice from Kate McCann?
If she gets a job with a charitable organisation I would never give a single penny to that particular agency nor visit their charity shops, she would do whoever gives her a job more harm than good.
I wouldn't accept any advice from her at all.
I just cannot think that anyone would accept any advice from her.
Cannot see how she can advize anyone, after leaving the children alone
its one of those questions isn't it. you cant take it too heart. I think she means well but what we can see as the public, by reading it or seeing it on TV is another thing. Seeing as how they haven't yet found Maddy people are going to be in two minds. its gotta to in the back of peoples minds, that they do know more then they are letting on? Something is just not quite right. I can only hope that Maddy is found safe and sound. But to answer your question: No I wouldn't.
What Kate McCann knows about parenting she could write on the back of a postage stamp.
She is just a joke.
by laughing out loud.....!
why are they so Meany people jumping on this band-waggon to condem the mcanns ,when as of yet nodody knows the truth.
Honestly?
Not very well. Think I'd be uttering rather a lot of expletives if she tried to give me parenting advice.
One possibility is that she will set up a charity to raise awareness of the extent of child abductions across Europe and help parents and children who suffer such an ordeal
Stormy,
Please read the article critically.
He!! I wouldn't take advice on how to properly care for my dog from her! She couldn't take decent care of her children. She couldn't be bothered to find a sitter for her children and just left them unattended what a pile of poo!
I wouldn't trust her to give advice on looking after a goldfish, never mind looking after a child
hmmmmmmmmmmmm!
There is no decent parent out there who would take advice for that woman. The only thing she can teach me, is how to leave me 3 year old on his own, and thats one lesson I would never want.
The woman needs parenting lessons her self
The ONLY thing she could advise us on is what can happen when you leave your kids unattended.
It was on a local news channel, real radio Scotland. Anyway Mrs McCann is now wanting to put her skills into another branch of expertise...family liaison officer..... is the new tickle bit to her fancy...PISH....SHE SHOULD BE CHARGED WITH NEGLECT.
Depending on what it was, I might take it. It depends if the advice is reasonable or not. Yes, I am aware that this was somewhat intended as a rant but I am going to answer it in the was Yahoo Answers was created for.
i think she made a huge mistage leaving her sweet girl on her own that night, and she is going to have to live with that forever, however, i could never and would never take any parenting tips from any of them...they could have done withsome imput though before leaving their kids on their own!
Just let her try,
I'm afraid I would not be very nice to her, should she try to give me advice.
I don't know what the truth of her situation is - so cannot defend or condemn her - but it does seem a bit crass for her to be giving advice to other people, given her circumstances.
to be honest, they would be the last people on earth, to give anyone advise, people who leave there children on there own, to the murcy of anyone, in a strange country, i would not do that to my dog, i realy hope with all my heart, that they find maddie, safe and well, but i have great concer ns, if they did find her would she be returned to the so called parents to be neglected again
I don't think she would be assigned as a case worker because of the crap and media exposure that she has been through. She will probably go into a supervisory position...or behind the counter, dealing with the application ques. Imagine walking up to a window and having her ask you for your ID.
I would politely decline and advise her to contact her local Parentline helpline or her Health Visitor for some advice on parenting.
Take parenting advise from Kate McCann,you must be joking...take any advise from doctor death.You are jesting.
';One possibility is that she will set up a charity to raise awareness of the extent of child abductions across Europe and help parents and children who suffer such an ordeal.';
So, could this be what she plans to do with the money from the Find Madeleine fund? I naively thought the McCanns would eventually hand the money over to some established charity with experienced workers who could put it to good use.
Her parenting skills leave much to be desired and I would certainly not take any advice from her. No mother is perfect but she did not provide the most basic care for her children, she left them alone and vulnerable deliberately night after night. She has no right to be advising anyone on parenting.
I've spoken to dozens of parents since this incident and most have admitted to doing similar things at one time or another. What they did was wrong, but they were the ones who were caught out. (Even if it's leaving them upstairs alone in a bedroom while you think they are sleeping).
Personally I would take umbridge at advice on how to bring my 2 up, from her.How would YOU react to parenting advice from Kate McCann?
Hopefully her trial will prevent any chance of that ever happening.How would YOU react to parenting advice from Kate McCann?
If she gets a job with a charitable organisation I would never give a single penny to that particular agency nor visit their charity shops, she would do whoever gives her a job more harm than good.
I wouldn't accept any advice from her at all.
I just cannot think that anyone would accept any advice from her.
Cannot see how she can advize anyone, after leaving the children alone
its one of those questions isn't it. you cant take it too heart. I think she means well but what we can see as the public, by reading it or seeing it on TV is another thing. Seeing as how they haven't yet found Maddy people are going to be in two minds. its gotta to in the back of peoples minds, that they do know more then they are letting on? Something is just not quite right. I can only hope that Maddy is found safe and sound. But to answer your question: No I wouldn't.
What Kate McCann knows about parenting she could write on the back of a postage stamp.
She is just a joke.
by laughing out loud.....!
why are they so Meany people jumping on this band-waggon to condem the mcanns ,when as of yet nodody knows the truth.
Honestly?
Not very well. Think I'd be uttering rather a lot of expletives if she tried to give me parenting advice.
One possibility is that she will set up a charity to raise awareness of the extent of child abductions across Europe and help parents and children who suffer such an ordeal
Stormy,
Please read the article critically.
He!! I wouldn't take advice on how to properly care for my dog from her! She couldn't take decent care of her children. She couldn't be bothered to find a sitter for her children and just left them unattended what a pile of poo!
I wouldn't trust her to give advice on looking after a goldfish, never mind looking after a child
hmmmmmmmmmmmm!
There is no decent parent out there who would take advice for that woman. The only thing she can teach me, is how to leave me 3 year old on his own, and thats one lesson I would never want.
The woman needs parenting lessons her self
The ONLY thing she could advise us on is what can happen when you leave your kids unattended.
It was on a local news channel, real radio Scotland. Anyway Mrs McCann is now wanting to put her skills into another branch of expertise...family liaison officer..... is the new tickle bit to her fancy...PISH....SHE SHOULD BE CHARGED WITH NEGLECT.
Depending on what it was, I might take it. It depends if the advice is reasonable or not. Yes, I am aware that this was somewhat intended as a rant but I am going to answer it in the was Yahoo Answers was created for.
i think she made a huge mistage leaving her sweet girl on her own that night, and she is going to have to live with that forever, however, i could never and would never take any parenting tips from any of them...they could have done withsome imput though before leaving their kids on their own!
Just let her try,
I'm afraid I would not be very nice to her, should she try to give me advice.
I don't know what the truth of her situation is - so cannot defend or condemn her - but it does seem a bit crass for her to be giving advice to other people, given her circumstances.
to be honest, they would be the last people on earth, to give anyone advise, people who leave there children on there own, to the murcy of anyone, in a strange country, i would not do that to my dog, i realy hope with all my heart, that they find maddie, safe and well, but i have great concer ns, if they did find her would she be returned to the so called parents to be neglected again
I don't think she would be assigned as a case worker because of the crap and media exposure that she has been through. She will probably go into a supervisory position...or behind the counter, dealing with the application ques. Imagine walking up to a window and having her ask you for your ID.
I would politely decline and advise her to contact her local Parentline helpline or her Health Visitor for some advice on parenting.
Take parenting advise from Kate McCann,you must be joking...take any advise from doctor death.You are jesting.
';One possibility is that she will set up a charity to raise awareness of the extent of child abductions across Europe and help parents and children who suffer such an ordeal.';
So, could this be what she plans to do with the money from the Find Madeleine fund? I naively thought the McCanns would eventually hand the money over to some established charity with experienced workers who could put it to good use.
Her parenting skills leave much to be desired and I would certainly not take any advice from her. No mother is perfect but she did not provide the most basic care for her children, she left them alone and vulnerable deliberately night after night. She has no right to be advising anyone on parenting.
I've spoken to dozens of parents since this incident and most have admitted to doing similar things at one time or another. What they did was wrong, but they were the ones who were caught out. (Even if it's leaving them upstairs alone in a bedroom while you think they are sleeping).
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