Hiya Kyle
I got circumcised at 22. But I wanted to get it done, for the same reasons as you, when I was a teenager. I didn't because, also like you, I didn't wanna feel awkward with my parents. It was a mistake waiting: 1. by the time I got circumcised, my foreskin got so tight I needed to be, 2. when (much later) I did tell my parents they were fine about it and said that, if that's what I needed or wanted, they'd have paid for it earlier and 3. you get a better job done and it heals quicker the younger you are.
It's not particularly painful when healing up and, as other people have written to you, done under local or general anaesthetic anyway. A good idea is to wear briefs, rather than boxer shorts, for a while afterwards.
I'm really happy that I'm now circumcised.
Good Luck!
NickHow painful is circumcision as a teenager and how do I tell my parents?
I was circumcised as an adult and it was not painful at all. Afterwards, while your penis is healing, you will experience some discomfort during nocturnal erections, as the stitches are stretched, but this will pass and you will begin to discover all the many benefits of being circumcised. As for telling your parents - I suggest that you tell your mother first and let her discuss it with your father. That will be easier for both of you. Good luck with your circumcision.
I used to perform circumcisions in the service. It is slighly painful for an adult. You are correct that their are health advantages to being circumcised. At you age I would recommend you go ahead with it.
i dont know how it feels but you just got to talk to your parents
Simply go to your urologist surgeon %26amp; make an appointment for surgery. Lie about your age. - they won't know - but have the money to pay for it. do it in the doctor's private suite -don't go to the hospital.
why involve your parents??? It's your prick %26amp; your life - not theirs. He who pays has the say. I never told mine - I just saved up my money %26amp; went ahead %26amp; did it. And I love my result. go for it. !!!!!!
Well i think the pain issue has been pretty wel answered on here but about your parents..you can sit down w/ them (doesnt have to be both, try talking w/ which ever one you're more comfortable w/) and tell them that you've been thinking about this for awhile and really want this done, be sure to let them know how important this is to you!
RECONSIDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The “medical” reasons for circumcision are for Doctors to make MONEY!!!
Yes Doctors are very, very concerned about the patients……….MONEY!!!
Circumcision is “nothing” compared to other much more terrible things that people do for MONEY, when MONEY is involved EVERYRHING is possible, MONEY is the priority not moral values, not ethics, not health, not wrong or right, not even human life, etc. People are selfish by nature. And that is soooo sad. $$$CASH$$$
Simply does not matter if circumcision has advantages or not; he has the right to his body to be intact, and that overrides everything else. And btw it only has disadvantages, see below.
MOTHERS, the feelings of mothers who observed the circumcision of their babies. Go here if you have the courage:
http://www.circumcision.org/mothers.htm
They do not remember the pain when they grow up, but I wonder what kind of neurological/emotional damage it does to inflict such severe pain to such a young one!
In the US circumcision started to stop boys from masturbating; they will take much longer to reach the orgasm, and the orgasm will not be as intense, but that will not stop them.
Nowadays the “medical” reasons to circumcision are for Doctors to make MONEY!!!
RELIGION--If God intended boys to not have ';skin'; He would have made them so.
Also, if you examine the bible, lest just say that is full of terrible things that are considered very illegal nowadays, and many of those terrible things are AGAINST WOMEN. Women, how would you like it if those things get legalized?
http://www.nocirc.org/religion/
HYGIENE--Use a new invention, soap and water!!! Women produce much more “smegma”, all kinds of discharges, wetness, and smells; because of physiologic and anatomical reasons, and how would you feel if they cut your vulva lips??? Women, why don’t you answer my question, are you afraid? Women are more likely to get urinary tract infections and no one suggests we surgically alter them at birth to reduce the risks! Just one of many double standards and laws that always treat men worse.
MEDICAL REASONS--No medical reasons. It is not a birth defect! A extremely small chance of a complication do not justify the removal of the foreskin, if so, why don't we remove the tonsils and the appendix when a child is born, and the chance of complications of the tonsils and the appendix is much greater. And what is even greater is the chance of breast cancer so the best thing to do is to remove the breast glands of young girls or at least remove them at the first sign of trouble without trying any alternative treatments first in order to preserve the breast(women, how do you like it now?). And for infections of all the organs, including female organs, use a new invention called antibiotics. Talking about complications, in fact many baby boys die each year from circumcision and related complications.
EVEN if “TRUE phimosis” occurs, instead of chopping it off like barbarians!, use Conservative Treatments like:
-Topical Medication(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Dilation and Stretching(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Combination treatment(non-traumatic and non-destructive)
-Preputioplasty is the medical term for plastic surgery of the prepuce or foreskin(many methods).
If you want more detail on Conservative Treatments, go here:
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/ph…
http://www.circinfo.org/alternatives.htm…
The foreskin can still be tight even after puberty, and it is natural, not TRUE phimosis.
And now they invented a new reason to make money, the risk of STD in uncircumcised men. Well actually uncircumcised men have more protection, but in practical terms that protection means nothing, because circumcised or not, if you have sex without protection and your partner have an STD you will be infected FOR SURE! That means, it is just one more stupid and desperate reason in order to make money with circumcisions.
SEX--Foreskin actually enhances the sexual experience for men because it constantly moves over the head of the penis causing more friction and pleasure. Men will also lose much sensitivity to the glans if circumcised.
Circumcised men will have to deal with discomfort and dry glans. Uncircumcised men, pull the foreskin back for a day, and see how it feels against your underwear all day, and see what happens. The frenulum is the G SPOT in men.
The foreskin have those functions: protective, erogenous, sensory, and sexual physiologic. After all, why would you want to lose all of those “Meissner corpuscles”, the same nerve complexes which provide fine touch to the fingertips?
It is there for many reasons, that is how a man should be(it is natural).
If women like it better circumcised because it looks better(strange, not natural) or gives them more sexual pleasure(strange, not natural), then too bad, they do not have the right! All men do not like mutilated vulvas, and all men like breasts with nipples, they do not like mutilated breasts, etc, etc, etc, because that is the way those organs are supposed to be, it is natural. Interesting, isn’t?!!!
If that was a common practice to do that to baby girls, all the women would be in a BIG UPROAR about it(and men too!, men are not like women), but it’s ok to mutilate little boys. The great majority of the ones that agree with circumcision are women for their stupid selfish reasons. Even court cases reported in which mother and father fight because the mother wants to mutilate the son, it is always the mother!. You women should be ashamed to that to your son. Men that are not circumcised, will not get circumcised when adults, they would scream, kick, fight and run, if someone tries to mutilate their privates area, just like you women would run too if someone tried to do that to your labia. Men that where circumcised do not realize what they lost because never had one, and most of them that do realize try to justify it so they do not feel bad about it. Many circumcised men feel very bad emotionally because of what was done to them to such a private area.
The uncut boys don’t joke the cut ones. The cut ones joke because they are jealous and traumatized, it makes them feel better, minimize the emotional pain.
It is mutilation of defenceless children in the most private spot, genital mutilation.
It is cruel and barbaric.
It is a human rights violation.
It is not the parent’s decision; it is the parent’s decision if they want to abuse him, rape him, or to kill him? It is the parent’s decision to choose the son religion? How can he chose a religion or his believes, if he is just a baby?
I do not even agree that it is ok if an adult man wants to get circumcised. I think it is wrong, because if a man wants to lose a finger, the Doctor can not do that to him. Think about it, think, think. And by the way, adult men that decide to get circumcised, do it because they know most women like it, they just do it to be more accepted by women.
I think it is just like slavery and all other barbaric acts of the past, it was accepted because it was common practice or tradition, everyone accepted slavery without questioning the facts, but it is not accepted anymore in a modern and fair and civilized society. Circumcision must not be allowed, BY LAW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Many other reasons not to do it, check it out:
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/
http://www.cirp.org/library/treatment/ph…
http://www.noharmm.org/
http://www.doctorsopposingcircumcision.o…
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/boydie…
if your penis is hurting you then tell your dad.He knows about things like that.Ask him to take you to the doctor
yes gor for it.. its good to be circumscised...good hygiene.
Do you go for regular physicals every year or so? Ask your doctor then.
Or you could just wait until you're 18 or 21 and paying for your own medical care, and have it done at that time.
Be glad your parents left you whole. There are no health advantages to being cut - none whatsoever. If you take regular showers, then there is no hygiene advantage either. If you stink it's because you didn't wash, not because you have your whole penis intact.
How much it hurts is not the question you should be asking - it's what you will be lacking for the rest of your life. It's not good to cut off a functional healthy body part for the sake of vanity. The foreskin is there for a reason - it protects the glans (head) of the penis. When it's gone, you'll have to develop a scar-like surface on the glans to keep the rubbing on your clothing from being painful. That cuts way down on your sensitivity. It also makes it kind of scratchy for your partner.
Don't do it!
don't do it!!!
The procedure in an adult male envolves some discomfort and pain. You will have to go for out patient surgery or possible overnite. Then after surgery you will have to heal and you will want to avoid erections for a few weeks. Then you will have to deal with the extra sensitivity until the glans adjusts to exposure and becomes less sensitive. Good luck
If you get circumcised you will be saying goodbye to the full experience of male orgasm for the rest of your life. You'll be cutting off all of the touch-sensitive tissue of your penis, and what you'll be left with to bring you to orgasm is the glans, which is only pressure sensitive. That's half of your penis's capability for sensation, into the trash.
The foreskin is really like a ';mini vagina'; - it keeps the glans in contact with what is loves, skin. What go and chop that off? Come to your senses, man...! I suggest you learn more about the foreskin, or just start learning more about sex, you'll realize the foreskin is the greatest sex toy that you will ever lay your hands on.
It is very painfull after the operation when you get an erection,in the first few weeks.My friend had it done and sometimes he was in tears.I can only say the same as David.Don't do it,it is there for a reason.
It's not painful...you would need a surgeon that can perform it for you under anesthesia. (A urologist) You will be a bit tender and somewhat sore...but nothing to be afraid of. As for your parents, explain to them that you wish to be circumcised as you would have more confidence when showering in the gym with other guys at school and you just wished you were. If they are understanding they will do it...if it is for religious beliefs you may have a harder time and may have to wait until your 18. My best to you and I hope you feel better about not being afraid to talk to them and/or to have it done if you chose to move forward. Take care.
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